Should I stop this strictly sexual relationship?

My best friend and I have known each other for over 6 years now. We met back in 2001 and started having sex in 2003. Once the sex started between us, I started getting more and more attached and I fell in love with him. He wasn’t feeling the same towards me. He started dating this girl and we stopped having sex and remained good friends. It was so hard for me, but I figured that I rather be his friend then his nothing. Time went on and he is no longer with that girl and we are back to having sex with each other. I’m more mature now then I was back a couple of years ago so I tell myself that I can handle being FWB with him this time around…but I guess I was wrong. I find myself thinking about him constantly and I think I’m falling for him again. We've never sat down and gave each other rules or anything, our sexual relationship just happens and we never talk bout it (very bad I know). I don’t know what to do. I love having sex with him and its pure bliss when we are together, but I know I’m risking a lot. His family and I are super close and it’s truly as if I’m apart of the family. Is this a train wreck waiting to happen?! Please I need advice..should I stop this sexually relationship with him and keep it strictly platonic? Should I talk to him?

Personally I feel you need to put a stop to this sexual relationship. He is purely using your friendship as a way of having sexual intercourse with you to satisfy himself.

Sexual intercourse is about two lovers who are in a committed relationship and want to share that intimacy verbally, physically, emotionally and sexually.

If he was inetrested in you as more than a friend he wouldn't have been in a relationship with this other girl in the first place, but by braking up with her and then coming back to you for sex clearly shows he's in it for the sex.

Hope I helped, funmail me if you want to talk furthermore

Agree with aaliyah 100% !! '
Casual sex with friends is the doughnut of romance. You may think it’s tasty now, but you’ll pay for it later'.

He was using you for sex in 2003. He then got himself a girlfriend, (assuming sex with you stopped right after) later his relationship dissolves, now he is back having sex with you again. He has NO emotional/loving feelings towards you, it is ALL sexual, NOTHING more! I dont even think you can have a normal friendship with him anymore. Unless you all of a sudden stop all feelings for him! You put yourself in a very vunerable state doing what you did, and now you are suffering the repercussion of your actions, but he isnt. I have a feeling when you stop all sexual contact with him, he will stop all contact with you...period!

Never have sex, unless you are in a loving, trusting, and commited relationship!

We actually did stop having sex for a while and remained friends. Im always hanging out with his sis and mom because like I said, we are all very close. I dont think if I end our sex then we will never speak again. =( I guess I know I do need to stop all of this because I am only playing myself..you guys are absolutely right.

but do you think I should talk to him and tell him how I feel for him or do you believe this will jeopardize our friendship?

but do you think I should talk to him and tell him how I feel for him or do you believe this will jeopardize our friendship?

So does he think that you and him are just having sex to let out all your inhibitions or what? Does he not know how you truly feel about him, that you dont just sleep with him because he is your friend? I think hes already told you how he feels. First by having sex with you without even asking you to be his girlfriend, then by actually getting himself a girlfriend, and then again by coming back to you for your so-called friendship after him and his girlfriend break up!

Do you think after all this time of being intimate with him, you can actually have a platonic relationship? I would talk to him and let him know how you are feeling. If he understands, he will still want you in his life, and respect your decision about just being friends WITHOUT the benefits part. If not, then he isnt worth keeping in your life, no matter how close your families are!

I know how you feel, I've done exactly the same thing with one of my friends and I got attached at one point.
To be honest I think the next time your tempted to have sex with him you should sit own and just say look...blah blah blah.
dont wait until your too in the mood for sex though because it couuld be abit weird then. - plus it might get him out of the mood if you go from sexual to serious.
another time you could do it is when your laying in bed next to him after having sex. lean your head on his chest and make him laugh. then just say it...or come onto the topic of it and let it come out. im sure he will understand! to be honest I doubt that he doesnt have feelings for you. if hes having sex with you and youve been friends for so long its hard to believe!
good luck!
just remeber, if all doesnt go to plan its not the end of the world hun! x

I think having a relationship based on sex is ok as long as both are cool with it, even other members think otherwise, when a couple has sex, both partners enjoy it, and it's not using if you agreed first that you would do it just for the joy of it!!

In your case, I think, when you start feeling more than just sexual attraction, you can get hurt and it will bring bad consequences for you in the future, you better put yourself together and realize what you really want, if you are up for more, then look for more to get more!!

I hope you do alright, good luck to you!!

T0 t3ll you th3 truth you sh0uld stop...he aint no g00d pers0n t0 be around with...he been using you f0r 6 years thats crazy...he just g0 back t0 you when he wants a puzzy and cant get 0n3 fr0m anyb0dy but u...plzz stop you g0ing t0 end up messed up

well hope you da best