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Is it wrong to hook up but not be officially dating?

hi.? Asked by ryansucks about 1 year ago, 6 answers.
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Friends with benefits???????????
I was going out with this girl and we had been going out for like 6 months. Her best friend and I had became best friends we always talk about anything and we have a lot in common. Well a couple of weeks ago I started feeling really weird about my friend. I started thinking about her more and more. It was like I liked my girlfriend when I was with her but any other time
I liked my friend. I told my friend how I felt and she was really scared about it because she felt the same way but she didn't want me to hurt her friend. Well a couple of days later we hung out like we usually do and we made out. After that I knew that I should brake up with my girlfriend because things with her weren't going anywhere and I really like the other girl.
The day after I broke up w/ my girlfriend she called me and told me she still wanted to be close like an idiot I agreed without asking what that really meant. I don't know if she's wanting me to be like her boyfriend but just not attatch the title boyfriend and girlfriend I don’t really know what she means by that because she didn’t really want to break up.
I really like that other girl but there is other problem I am moving half way across the country in June and neither one of us want to start a relationship, but we want to be more than friends…is it wrong for us to kiss and stuff (not have sex) and not actually be boyfriend and girlfriend and do you think after I move it will change things between us?

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Answered by msmizzy on May 27, 2007, 03:59PM
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well.....I think that you shudnt start a relationship if your going to move, cause it mite hurt....ask urself if you really like her...cause if you just want her so you can makeout...is it really love..or pleasure?
and dun wry, you were rite to break up with your other girlfriend,, if you love someone else..than its okay

HELLO KITTY Answered by voodoo on May 27, 2007, 05:55PM
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well, I've been in a long distance relashinship, for me it didnt work out, but first of all I dont think you should have kissed her friend while you were dating her, if you got feelings for someone else while your dating someone else, dont led them on, I dont think thats right. cause I know how it feels. And as in getting "no were" as in what??? would she not have sex with u?? that conffuses me. but truely do what your heart feels right. I know that sounds kinda corney, but believe me youll know what I mean.

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Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on May 27, 2007, 06:38PM
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This relationship will depend on you and her along. . . I have a nephew who goes to collage in Lubbuck Texas and his Girlfriend lives in Denton,Tx they are about 300 miles apart and going strong. . . . . .Even though right now they are (not together) No one is fooled. Got luck and Be strong and remember If your lover is not a friend first you should end it before it gets that far.

Answered by fau on May 31, 2007, 04:52PM
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It is not wrong, but just keep in mind that it will change your relationship. Girls are typically emotional when it comes to sex, even if they try to act like they are not, so your girlfrrend will most definately change. Just given ya a heads up.

Me :) Answered by cristinaletizia on Aug 05, 2007, 07:07AM
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oh my gosh its fine. go have fun!

Baebi. Answered by pezkez on Aug 18, 2007, 11:56PM
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awwh thats sweet,, but.. dont start a relationship, because its sucks when you''re only an hour away.. keep in contact,-msn,phone-.. stuff like that I guess... and your exgf probably ment.. close friends..and possibly hookingup..

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