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Shark Atack Asked by funadvice about 1 year ago, 1 answer.

I have friends trouble... I have 2 best friend and my other best friend who I've known longer than the other one has been telling me that my other best friend has been saying some stuff like I've replaced them with my boyfriend and that I dont care...

for them anymore and that hurts me very much as for a year we've known each other she doesn't know how much they mean to me, we had a few arguements before but it doesn't last long but it feels like she's stealing my best friend who I've known since I was a kid and like it hurts me thinking of loosing her to my other best who I've only known for a year and like she thinks she knows me already saying that I don't care for them anymore that I only like my boyfriend now and stuff and its annoyin me

My other best friend 'R' are even told me shes getting a bit annoyed cause I avnt spent my time with them as much and that it is a bit true about what 'Y' said that it seems I've replaced them with my boyfriend.

It really hurts me cause my boyfriend has been there for me before we were together, he was there to make me feel better when my ex was texting other girls and not caring about me, and now that his my boyfriend his been really supportive and all and that we both want to spend as much time together before the summer holidays come cause my parents doesnt know about him yet and I planned to tell them but they wont let me out as much as we want to see each other cause theyre really protective.

I don't want to loose my best friends or my boyfriend and everytime were all together, my 2 best friend doesnt really talk to him and I'm torn, my friend 'Y' is already stealing 'R' whose been like a sister to me and I cant stand to loose her to her and like I don't want to loose my boyfriend either sad

And even though my best friend 'R' says I dont spend much time with her, we never did go out to see each other after school cause shes not that out going type of person but still I cant use that as an excuse, I spend my time with my boyfriend instead after school and like were really bonding with each other and learning each other every day and the more I spend my time with him the more I learn to love him and want to be with him and like, I wish my best friend would understand, 'R' told me she understands that if it was her she'll do the same thing xD but itS our friend 'Y' who doesn't and that 'R' does get a bit frustated with me sometimes when I just go off and leave them to go to my boyfriend

Can you give me some advice on how I can rebuilt my friendship and make it even stronger than its already is, without making my boyfriend feel left out as I made my 2 best friend felt

Thanks!!!

i dun smile much... so here's my best one! Answered by butterfly_kiss3z on Jun 20, 2008, 09:37AM
1307 answers

I have that problem too sometimes, except that I'm the one who feels left out most of the time - cause my friends are at the stage where they understad that once you have a boyfriend - you're full devoted to him! but I do miss my girls and I do miss the fun things I do with them that I can't do with my boyfriend, so that's why I split my time!! - I just simply go out to lunch with the girls, go shopping with them on the weekends!!...ect - all the girly stuff we do I leave my boyfriend out of it and tell him that I just need time to chill with my girlfriends - and he compleately understands, cause he has his own friends that he likes to hang with as well (to play basketball and stuff)!! *a tip on getting your girlfriends and you boyfriend to get to know eachother is to go and do something you all enjoy... like a theme park???... ahahaha... I duno.. that's just a suggestion, cause that's how I get my friends and my boyfriend to bond!! **as for your parents, to know that you're dating, why don't you start it off by telling either your mum or dad (whom ever you're closer too) and explain to them that you're growing up, and that you know your bounderies with him, and tell them that he treats you right and why you love him!! - trust me, it's better and less nerve racking to have your parents know that you're dating!! =)

whooo!! that was long... lol hope it helped you out tho 3

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