Friend problems...

ok... my friend told me that my best friend was talking about me behind my back 2 him also, I found out she is now goin out with my ex boyfriend who she knows I still like. My other friend warned her that it would hurt me if she went out with him and she...

did it anyways. She chose him over me and I dont know if I should really be her friend anymore... I was always good 2 her and most of the time I just got sh*t back. Also, appearently last night she was all suicidal because she finally realized that she f*cked up (and lost another of her friends at the same time) and was talking 2 my friend DJ on aim, now he hates me and I don't know what 2 do. They're just going to tell my whole class and evry1 is going to hate me and I don't know what 2 do... please help

Im sorry all this is happening, but what you should do is, call her and take her out to lunch. Talk to her about everything that has been happening and just resolve it. If everythings fine try to spend ther night at her house that night or something. It would be easier to loose a guy in your life then a friend.

ya its not even as much that shes with him its that she didnt even tell me.. it woulda made it alot easier 4 me and 4 her. but ivr been her best friend since 5th grade when she came 2 this school (were now in 8th) and she literally chose him over me and like ive been trying 2 get her 2 go 2 the movies all weekend (this just happened friday) but her parents r rly retarded and like dont let her do things even if they dont have a reason not 2 let her like theyll say we dont have 2 give a reason or some stupid sh*t like that so its rly hard and ya... well 2morow its back 2 school so i guess ill c her there... well ty

o and that she was talkin sh*t behind my back -_-

Ya i have been your shoes before, just let it slide, you both need your space and time to blow it off. Give it a couple of weeks and then try to talk to her. You say that her parents are like over protected, dont care about what there daughter wants to do. Ya my parents were like that it's simple really just drop by and ask if she can come out for sec just to maybe take a walk, go to the park something, it's better than nothing. Plus correct me it I'm wrong, but you said that your are in 8th grade isn't that like Middle School. High School is next year. If the whole class is supposly going to get mad at you, they can't stay mad at you forever because soon enough there attention is going to go to something else. Plus if they do just blow it off its not there business anyways, people just like to butt in where there noses don't belong. well I hope that helps, oh and usually when your friend is saying she is feeling susicidal she is doing it for the attention, unless this she has like marks down her wrists than I could be wrong.

She sounds like one of those attention seekers, typical lil teeny girl who says all this crap and does crap to get attention. You dont need this drama, give her space and she will realise what she has done and how immature she is being. But just think, will you ever be able to trust her around any of your future boyfriends? you will always be worried she will try and crack onto them, its not a very nice friend to have, you need to talk to her and explain your feelings to her and its up to her if she wants to change to keep you as her friend, she is in the wrong here not you.

ya i think it might b all good now but like ya i agree with u itll b rly hard 2 trust her with my future bfs and like i probably wont even introduce em anymore . but like ya.. all the bfs ive had have ended up liking her so like..ya..