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Asked by bowlinggreen 18 days ago, 6 answers.

I need help. My freshman year of high school absolutely sucked. There was a rumor spread about me and because of this I have no friends this year. Does anyone have any ideas or advice on how I can get people to like me again.
P.S. everyone believed...

this rumor and no one believes me that its a lie.

lol Answered by heyygirllheyy on Nov 03, 2009, 05:04PM
19 answers

What was the rumor?
it depends on what it was.

Answered by bowlinggreen on Nov 03, 2009, 05:17PM

It was that I was gay. I've tried to tell people that Im not but no one believes. I dont act gay or anything they are all just douches.

Answered by fau on Nov 03, 2009, 05:31PM

this has to be bullshiet .
1. in college do you think they give a ffuckingdamn if your gay or not. They dont even care in highschool
So stop looking for attention

Answered by rickswifey on Nov 04, 2009, 09:33AM
16 answers

I SAY GET ONE GIRLS ATTENTION HANG WITH HER MAKE HER YOUR GIRLFRIEND AND THEN THEY WILL SAY OH HES NOT GAY HHAHAAH I THINK IT WILL WORK

Eh Answered by vanessasays on Nov 06, 2009, 01:47PM
422 answers

Um bowling whatever , get a life , dick weed isnt even a word and no they dont rofl
nice try on getting atention tough

the sky and sun amazing things Answered by cambei on Nov 07, 2009, 01:49PM
355 answers

Freak yeah get a girlfriend that'll teach 'em a lesson!
Although with the reputation it'll be harder...
Why don't you just be yourself and wait for the rumor to die down a little bit.
If it doesn't, or when it does,
Just ask out a girl you think is pretty or that you like.
They might just say 'Oh look he's in denial'.
She might say yes because she'd feel bad that you are 'in denial'. Who knows really.
Don't go overboard by asking out too many girls, that would obviously make you look like you're in denial.
Start with people you are friends with, or at least okay with.
Tell them it was all a rumor and they are more likely to believe you than your enemies. Leave your enemies be for now because anything you say will be twisted into something bad. Also they will see you are provoked.
Or...
Maybe you could confront the person who started the rumor? Go right up to them and let them HAVE IT! Don't yell or punch them in the face but ask in a really edgy 'I-Am-CONFRONTING-you-MAN!' kind of a voice happy
Or...
You could pretend like it's no big deal and just pretend nothing changed. Just take no notice of anyone or anything to do with you ''being gay''. You won't be feeding into the debate and people might forget.
Or...
Pull a huge prank so that someone else gets all the attention and you'll be forgotten.
Or...
Talk to a school counselor?
Trust me I told my counselor at JUNIOR HIGH that I almost had a 3some with some friends- ehh long story.
My point is counselors are accepting and are TRAINED to know that anything can happen. So telling her/him your deal won't be any big problem. happy

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