My closest friend really stops me from doing things at school

My closest friend really stops me from doing things at school that I really want to do... if I tell her she will be really upset with me, what should I do? please answer me

This is a tricky one, because you can look at it from two angles. Either she is helping you or holding you back, as outlawzbabygurl said previously. Just ask yourself if you really want to do something and if it is right for what YOU want. Remember you only live once and you never want to have regret...trust me it sux. Let her know if she is truly your friend cause if she finds out otherwise she might get pissed. Explain to her why you want to do whatever it is you want to do, and she should understand if she is a good friend. And she can't physically stop you from doing anything, and if she tries PUNCH her in the face...least thats how we do it where im from. *_^

it depends on what your trying to do. if your trying 2 do sumthin positive then dont let her keep you from doin that tell her straight up. but if you trying 2 do sumthin negitive then shes juss bein a friend trying 2 help you out. so juss talk 2 her at least

thankyou for your help it is a positive thing that I have to do but I have to keep telling the teacher that I cant because she will get mad at me if I do. I dont want to loose her as a friend. thanks again for your help...

ok thanks saiyamanxxx and outlawzzbabygurl your help is great I will take your advice

if it's a positive thing then go right ahead, she should support you in anything that you do and be there for you if shes a real friend, not stopping you from doing it, do this thing that you need to do and tell her you support her in the thing she wants to do so why doesnt she want to support you??

I dont no what she wants me to do because I have to do it for school but I have to tell the teacher that I cant bcos she doesnt want to be by herself

I dont no what she wants me to do because I have to do it for school but I have to tell the teacher that I cant bcos she doesnt want to be by herself

Just make sure what you're going to do is truely in your best interest - that may very well be her concern and that's what a good friend does...Take care !!