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I have a friend with benefits and I was just wondering if its wrong or not? what do you think?

Friends with benefits can be a great thing!! I've been doing this for about 5years now, and it's working out very well for both of us. no one ever knew, until we got caught at a party, we arent even friends really, just the benefits part, so it was a big shock to everyone, who knows us, and they all think it was a one-time thing.hehehe. I dont have a problem with it, and I enjoy booty calls. Now I'm seeing someone, so I havent been hooking up with this guy, but when this relationship is over we'll be back to normal. I think a no-strings-attached relationship is the best kind! it's very liberating, and can be lots of fun. you should enjoy it, and embrace your freedom, and if anyone has a problem with it, to hell with them. It's your life, live it!

It depends on a lot of factors, because many times someone in the relationship may want more and there could be some emotional things etc that goes with it, its mainly a choice between you though... but in all honesty I don't think they are safe... but I'd probably still do it, (myself) if I knew no one would get hurt. But I have had bad experiences with them.

Jason

I think I am moving to canada.

y?

cause I think girls there rock :P

Ok so its working for tiffany>doesnt mean that everyone should do it!
Being FF can be fun and rewarding if both parties are clear that it's only about sex. Otherwise, it's a dangerous proposition.

it just depends on how many benefits you have with this friend. I have one and all we do is cuddle and thats it..

How is cuddling a benefit? I used to cuddle with my mom, I cuddle with my cousins, I cuddle with like everyone I know, it is surely not a benefit.

lol @ tiff :P

Jason, I'm just calling it like I see it. If I cuddled with my "friends with benefits" I'd never have time to f**k them. Duh! who has time to cuddle in 2006?
Cuddling may have been a benefit when I was like 5, even then I kissed boys.

lol no no I understand where you are comming from I agree with you 100% I think she said that because she was born in 1991 at least that is what I am guessing from her name so she is what 12... :P I just thought it was funny what you said... you cracked me up.

actually I'm not 12 I'm 15 and there are many different ways to cuddle..I mean like more than cuddling but it's what I call as cuddling..

What do you mean exactly by cuddling? How about elaborating a little more? Oh and another thing, you sound like an 8yr old stuttering when you say "cuddling" 3 times in such a short reply. Jason I knew you agreed with me, I didnt mean for it to sound so rude...

Sorry I personally dont think SEX is a benefit these days!! Its easier to get sex than it is to actually have a good relationship!!