Found condoms in my little sister's bag

I have younger sister (15) I am her older brother (16) I was looking in her bag and I found condoms, she is wayyy to young to be having this stuff, or even thinking about it how the hell do I confront her I don't want her to know I was looking through her stuff but I want to make sure she is not having sex. I mean yeah cool she has protection but she is 14!

Wait...is she 14 or 15? Anyway, just talk to her in private. The whole thing about looking through her stuff will blow over if you just talk to her as a concerned brother. I'm a big sister, and I would do the same thing if I found condoms in my litttle brother's room. Don't immediately go to a parent, although it probably will be necessary. Just say what you want to say to her, and you'll know what to do.

ohh sorry, she is 15, typo the last one.

Find the nastiest pictures of STD infested genitals that you can online and show it to her. Then tell her that having sex is her choice, but she needs to be aware of how she can ruin her body (and other peoples). Thank god she at least uses condems...

If you're that concerned, tell your parents. It was wrong for you to look in her bag, and you have no business doing that.

It's not up to you whether or not your sister has sex.

its liekly that she is having sex, unless she just got them in sex ed! haha
bu pretty likeley shes started having sex
you could confront a parent, its only natural that your concerned
or maybe print out some useful information for her about sex and being safe
just leave it under her door and hope that she reads it
that way if she is, at least shell be a bit safer

Look. You're a concerned brother and apparently you really care about your sister. That is good she is having protected sex, but she is still having sex ata young age. You could talk to her about it and let her know that she could possibly screw up the rest of her life if the codom breaks or if "accidents" happen. There is also the TELL YOUR PARENTS about it thing. Do you think they should know? She'll come back and say something retarded like, "All the kids at school are doing it." got to love peer pressure. But, ask yourself how open a relationship you and your sister have. So what you violated her privacy. It sucks. Whatever. Life goes on. What if she was shooting up heroin? I'm not saying that it's the same thing but it kind of is. One mistake and she ruins her future and becomes a teen mother. Can anyone tell me why parents don't talk to their kids about this? Why parents don't teach and educate their kids on why they SHOULD NOT have sex at an early age? Instead of telling kids why they should by sexed in school? How to have safe sex. Here you go. Have a condom. Go PTA. But, talk to her. Not talking to her could lead to her making a big mistake and either getting an STD (which condom's don't really protect against things like AIDS) or getting pregnant (like if there is a hole or a tear or the condom breaks) But don't worry if she gets mad. You could always go kick some body in the crotch for touching your sister, Just a suggestion. Violence doesn't solve anything but it sure does feel good. Lol. Just kidding. Talk to her or talk to your parents. Just don't sit by and not do anything.

is she 14 or 15? just ask her sraight out dont mention the bag

my brother found a pregnancy test in my room, he didn't know how to confront me. I knew by the way he just looked at me that he knew. I couldn't take the fact that he didn't say anything to me. I always thought that if this ever happend he would kill me and my boyfriend. just because the way he is. I was so scared to look at him, or talk to him. I finally had the guts to confront him about it. Turns out that he was hella scared for me. That he was dissapointed that I didn't tell him about it in the first place but not because I was sexually active.
He told me he didn't know how to talk to me about it, that if he was the first one to say something he would have yelled at me. He said that he knew it would be hard to bring it up, that I was scared to talk to him. he said he was trying to put himself in my postion, that he knew yelling wouldn't solve anything.
Ever since that happend we've been closer then ever. We can talk about mostly anything that comes to mind.
All I can say, is don't yell at her. She could have a good reason for having it. It's probably harder for her to saysomething to you cause she knows how you react to most things.
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