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First time and he didnt go in. help!

Me Asked by courtney6593xo 6 months ago, 5 answers.

Okaay so my boyfriend and I are or were virgins. And we tried to have sex for thefirst time. But like we tried and he didnt go in, like he couldnt. I don't know if theres something wrong with me that im like too tight or what. And I don't know if im...

still virgin after this attempt. Like after my crotch hurt and it bleed a little but since he didnt go in would you say im still a virgin or no? I need help or advice on basically having sex and what to do so the next time we try it willbe a lot better and he can actually get in...please help. Thanks happy

Answered by thegurl05 on May 05, 2009, 12:45PM
38 answers

well sweetheart the first time normally isn't enjoyable at all.
and yeah if you were a virgin hes going to have to push to get it in, so maybe try using some kind of cream of something for it which you can buy a local store.
you weren't doing anything wrong, neither was he, its just sex for the first time can be awkward.

Jayson Answered by jay69 on May 05, 2009, 12:49PM
78 answers

yea I agree with the girl05 he has to get you relaly wet for it to go in the first time...he should go down on you and even finger you to get you a lil open ...then he should be able 2 slide in...its a great feeling...if he cant get in after that then he obviously doesnt know what hes doing...lolzz...but 4 real he has to get you wet and finger you to make it happen...but yea you still a virgin until hes in you and he cums

Answered by jadiie on May 05, 2009, 12:49PM

Plus havin sex for the first time is quite a scary time.
Maybe he was just nervous.
Maybe you guys aint ready yet.

Me Answered by courtney6593xo on May 05, 2009, 12:57PM
18 answers

thanks happy cause like my boyfriend never had sex before either so he deffly has nooo ideaa on what hes doing. I could tell cause he didnt really know where to put it in haha I had to put it in the right spot. but like I either dont get wet or it takes me a longgg time too. idkk

in the fittin room :D Answered by cupcake5 on May 05, 2009, 01:46PM
962 answers

a guy doesnt have to cum in a girl so shes not a virgin anymore 'jay69'!

lol how dumb.

once the insertion happens.
bleeding or no bleeding..its gone.

bye bye viginity.

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