First time

What do you do to your girl (which is a virgin) when you have sex???

well you have to get her really wet and communicate with her so you know if you are hurting her or not. you need a lot of foreplay and should probably start of with the missionary position and before during and after reassure her that you love her... if you do. I sure hope you do. and she might be sore after but that is normal and she may bleed so put a towel down just in case. use plenty of lub and spermicide. and use a condom if you arent planning on getting her pregnant and call her the next day so she knows that you love her and didnt just want sex. and also please please please dont feel like you can just pull out cause it doesnt always work there is something called precum and you wont even feel it or see it. and if you do get her pregnant dont leave her... hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~

IF SHE WANTS 2 LOOSE HER V CARD TAKE IT SLOW WITH HER ASK HOW SHE DOIN HOW SHE FEELING THROUGH OUT THE SEX!!!

I've been watching your last couple of posts, and I can authoritatively say - you're overthinking things by a factor of googol.

Understand and understand well. You're going to be awful your first time. Simply, truly, without-a-doubt terrible. If the government had a Department of Sex, the cabinet minister would resign after the awkward bumping you're about to engage in. If aliens are deciding the fate of humanity based on whether or not you and your girlfriend have satisfactory coitus, the Earth is going to be a cloud of radioactive atoms after 2.5 minutes of thrusting.

Just relax. Embrace the suck. Nothing you read or watch in a porno or hear from your friends is going to make you any better your first time, so just take a few deep breaths, trust in your body, and know that it'll get better next time.

Oh, and if you don't use a condom, you're a vicious douchebag. Cheers.