Why isn't my girlfriend ever ready to kiss?

ok some of you might remember my last question on this but if you dont. Im 14 and my girlfriend is 13. when I asked you if I should just kiss my girlfriend or wait when I was going out with her for a month and we had not kissed yet! its her first kiss as well as mine! we have been going out for 2 month on wednsday. and every time I ask her if she is ready or if she wants to kiss yet, she says not really, and I asked her why but she hasnt answered me yet!! Its SO frustrating!!! I dont know what to do, I can wait for her to be ready no matter how long that is, but in her last 9 month relationship they didnt kiss either!!! What should I do other then wait!!!

Shes ONLY 13. There is NOTHING wrong with NOT kissing. If your only goal in a relationship at this age is to kiss a girl, then maybe she isnt the one for you. NEVER pressure her into doing something she isnt ready for. When she is ready (may not be for a couple years) then thats HER decision. Theres more to a relationship than getting physical. Why dont you try spending more time just getting to know her, and hanging out in groups with other people around. Stop trying to figure out how to get her to kiss you! Shes already informed you she isnt ready. Exactly what dont you get? Just respect her decision, and let it be at that!

well I understand that it can be frusterating but you have to repect her discion of not being ready yet. if you dont than you are obviously in this reltionship for the action which isnt good. just remeber that there is nothing wrong with a no kissing relationshipp. (:

Hmmm how much do you like this girl?

Have you ever just looked into each others eyes but neither of you saying a word and just smiled because you love each other so much?

If not then maybe she aint the one mate, your only 13 and dont take this the wrong way but your highly unlikely to be with this girl for years to come, if you do that brilliant and good for you!

Just wait it out mate! Thats all there is to it, but dont let it ruin your relationship! Just be satisfied with the fact that someone cares so much about you and enjoy what you have, but thats just my 2 pence worth.

Also adults will give you loads of great advice but id bet you you will never listen to a dam thing they tell you!

wow I kissed my first girlfriend when I was 12 you should break up with her but if you like her a lot stay with her but good luck

omg give her time she's probably really nervous.

I agree with danielle, but if you really want to kiss her try starting with a kiss on the cheek.

k I have done the kiss on the cheek already, she said she liked it! and we both love eachother! and most of all shut the f up angel! im not in it for physical, and where did I write that I was trying to force her to kiss me, if I recall correctly I also said I could wait for her to be ready for as long as it takes!!! and me and her have been good friends for over 2 years, so I think we know eachother pretty well!!! plus this is advice forums not a forum on lecturing people on what the shouldnt be doing!!!

ummm give her time I guess but I made out wit guys when I was 11

ummm give her time I guess but I made out wit guys when I was 1... and anglefire you think you know everything but you dont!!!

ummm give her time I guess but I made out wit guys when I was 11... and anglefire you think you know everything but you dont!!!

ty blondie

NO I dont know anything. I mean I was never your age...lol! You first need to RESPECT your girlfriend when she tells you shes NOT ready. Its plain and simple!

So if you claim you can wait, then why are you so frustrated?? Your a VERY impatient 14 yr old, arent you? Sorry Bud, but you have 2 choices here...1~ either you let it happen on its own, and when SHES ready...2~ find another girl who will give you what you want! Its really not a tough one to figure out! You cant make someone do what they dont want to do!

Well.. I understand your girlfriend.
I have been with my current boy friend for about 7 months, and we had our first kiss actually acouple weeks after he asked me out.

but anyway.. it just means she's not ready yet. When she's ready, she'll let you know. You really just need to be patient for her. No matter what, don't ever put pressure on her, because it'll make her not want to kiss you even more. Just let her know you're willin to wait for her, no matter how long it takes. This is your guys' first kiss, be patient, when you guys are ready, it will happen naturally.

I hope I helped!
(:

I'm proud of your girlfriend for not letting you pressure her into anything. Be glad you have a girlfriend with some self respect.
And if you respected her, then you would respect that she just isn;t ready yet.Just leave her alone for a while and let HER be the next one to bring up kissing. Okay?

ok why does everyone keep thinking im pressuring her, why dont you people actualy read what I wrote, I said I could wait as long as it takes! that doesnt sound like pressuring to me!!! (I liked your answer randyo)