First kiss advice

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a monthe now and we havent kissed yet. Shes very very shy and even has trouble opening up to me and even her friends. I think that if we kissed it would get rid of a lot of the sexual tension between us. I dont want to make her uncomfortable. She is very fragile and sensitive and I dont want to break our realtionship. Need help on how I shud kiss her.

I agree with the first two comments completely. This guy and I had been having these constantly awkward moments, and I wasn't sure if he wanted to kiss me or not so we would just stand there uncomfortably. Later on one night we hugged goodbye, but he held on like piker187 said and he just stared into my eyes, and finally after a while he asked me if I wanted a kiss and I said yes. I can also be terribly shy and having him take some incentive and give me an option, made everything much easier and not as awkward... because I did want to kiss him. Goodluck with your girlfriend, it is very sweet that you are giving her so much room, and maybe she does want to kiss you, but you ought to find out so you can get past that awkward stage.

ok man, its easy. after a day of hanging out or whatever you do. when your saying your goodbyes and you give her a hug. after the hug keep your arms around her but pull back your head and just stare into her eyes for a minute. she'll know, and just move in slowly

well if you talk to her online ask her if she would be ok with you kissing her. I used to be the same way. she is probably just a little nervous but dont make her tell you to kiss her. my first time I was waiting like a month and I really liked the kid and I was like vinny if you want to kiss me just kiss me already and he did but it was nervrecking and imbarrassing lol you dont want to do that to her. if she hesitates a lot to like go inside of her house of something then that means she wants a kiss. and then you can do what piker said or you can ask her right then and there is it ok if I kiss you right now she doesnt have to say nething she could just nod her head. communication is the key but it seems like your ganna have to open her up a little. she needs a little push. you do most the communicating for a while but take it slow ok... need more advice funmail me and hope I helped ~kaitlyn~

thx for the help

is there any way to REALLY hint to her that I want ot kiss without having to ask her?

thx thts a lot of help I really hope we can work this out

Usually I would say if you want to,go for the gusto!But since your girlfriend is shy this is different.One day if you find you are are alone,Hug her goodbye and kiss her gently on the shoulder,this is sweet and I'm sure sh'ell like it.Another time,as fast as you can,kiss her on the cheek.Next ask her over to your house or a movie or to meet you before or after school,and smile at her,and say"I would like to kiss you"If she agrees,then go for it,if not be patient and say"Sure,I'll wait until your more comfortable" and hug her.