What if i'm freaking out about him touching me?

I have an amazing boyfriend that im absolutely in love with. He wants to finger me but, there's a bit of a delemma. I've always been freaked about what to do while being fingured. I don't wanna be a total idiot and just sit/lay/stand there. that's what...

Im afraid of. WHAT DO I DO?! lol. But, fingering has always scared me cause I have big *lips* if you're catchin my drift. I don't want him going down there cause im insanely self conscious and Im afraid of what he'd think. I don't know if it's common or if it's something normal. But I think im disgusting. I don't want him to think im some mutant. PLEASE HELP! Advice/tips/etc

you will know what to do once your doing it.. i think its fun to play around sometimes and just like go from one extreme to the other..start like rubbing him then just sit there and moan a little things like that..just go on and off it will drive him nuts (in a good way!) and the big lips issue. its normal hun. he wont think your a mutant. he probably will like it. goodluck

Having large lips is common. It's nothing to worry about. However, you might want to hold off on doing anything sexual until you feel comfortable with your body. If you're uncomfortable and tense, that means you probably wouldn't enjoy yourself as much. Also, being tense can actually make sexual activity painful!

As far as what to do, do whatever you want. There isn't anything you're required to do. You can sit there, stand there, lie there, return the favor, watch tv, take a nap, eat some food. :P Seriously, there are no rules to this. Do whatever you want.

like the llewellyn and cjewls27 dont worry about u noe wat LOL ..each person was created differently , u may have BIG lips but hey well then ill jus say mine r quiet small and my bf loves it he could care less. if ur bf love u he wont care much about it , jus learn to love ur self and as for wat to do wen being finger ..there is really anything specific jus sit or lay there let him do his thing and the course will take it place u will do nothing but MOAN wildly trust me ive been doin it quiet often, u will be so out of it u will probably even start touching ur self its tat crazy LOL..jus note if it is ur first time doin this MAKE sure he takes it slow it maybe awhile before u get into the rough act , also make sure his nails are trimmed and tat his hnads are clean u can get infections if not carefull ..WELL good luck and have fun ENJOY =P

i would prefer a girl withlarge lips so he wont care

dont care my girls got big lips and you are smokin hot. and on another note, return the favor.