Is it normal for it to hurt when he fingers me?

my boyfriend and I have been doing more sexual stuff you could say lol
anyway, whenever he tries to finger me I freak out a little and it kinda like poks me like a tac kind of. is that normal? like it doesnt really hurt, it just springs out at me. I love...

it when he licks me out so thats not a problem..

also..
does sex hurt??

thanks
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Just tell him to be more gentle and use more lubricant. He needs to prob his finger in you if you want him to finger you, probing is like fingering, but less... Fierce. Tell him to put a little in at a time, not a whole finger. Give it a try if you want.

sometime yes first time sex will hurt s lil but after its the best...And the other thing its nuthing just a lil shy id sll

hrm.
for my experiences, it hurts the first time.
but if your a noob then yeah when he fingers u it might hurt a lil bit.
it shouldnt be that much pain. tell him to go easy, and when u get use to it then he can do whatever he wants ^_^

If it feels like a tac it could be that his finger's dry.
Try bringing his hand to your mouth where you can moisten it for him wink pretending it's his thing, then see if that's better. Dryness is the cause of most discomfort.

It could be that he's in a hurry. Even when we have plenty of time, guys hurry - gotta learn not to for her best pleasure.

The answer to Does it hurt? has lots of answers, everything from depending on his size and your size, to how turned on you are (how wet and open - the more foreplay the better) and how gentle he is with you the first time. Read up on first times so you're ready.

Hope this helps a li'l

well the first time i got fingered it did hurt a lil bit because i was still a virgin so yes it did fel kinda like a tac.. well i will sudjest to use more lub or to have him go down on u and leave it real wet.. lol and yes sex does hur the first time.. it hurts for only a couple of minutes untill ur vigina opens up to the size of his penis..the first time at the beginig is going to hurt and the second time a lil too.. but is not pain u cant take u just fell a lot of pressure.. soo i hope that helps u.. take care gurly.. always use protection remmember..

cheque his nails they might b jagged and guys seem to have the dryest hands hes needs to moisturize its its the feeling of his hands but if its just the way hes doing it that hurts show him what you like hell catch on