Does fingering hurt and what does the girl do during it?

I'm 14 and there's this guy that I really like and he really likes me too and we are basically going out. And so he said that he wanted to finger me and I have no problem with that, I actually want him to so ya.. but like a few questions:: Does it hurt...

when you get fingered?? What does the girl do when he's fingering you?? And if he pops my cherry (he said he really wanted to) I know that I might bleed but what does the guy do when I do bleed? Just take out his finger for a bit and then put it back in??

I've tried it myself and it hurts to me but I dont know what im doing wrong can you help me?

well I only got it once and it hurt a lot because he has really long and cold fingers.I thought it was supposed to feel like that so I let him keep going.he was going fast and went really deed.but I didnt bleed.worst experience ever.

well I only got it once and it hurt a lot because he has really long and cold fingers.I thought it was supposed to feel like that so I let him keep going.he was going fast and went really deep.but I didnt bleed.worst experience ever.

14 having sex? your just getting used

ok I got fingered my boyfriend for the first time last week. and like I don't know he was kinda ruff and stuff but it felt good because he was like kissing me too..he used two fingers and went in deep and stuff and it hurt a lil at first but then it felt AMAZING and I didn't bleed. so I don't think you should worry about bleeding. and if you think your ready you should deffinetly go for it:D it is alott of funn :DD

for one thing that boy doesnt really like u...if he really wants to finger u..then thats not love..thats just releasing his sexual esires for you mamazz...but no it doesnt hurt at alll..it feels goood...losing your virginity is another thing though...it hurts like a B*** I dint bleed ..only like 2 drops of blood...just make sure both of you ar protected because that boy seems experienced...u dont wanna catch anything on your first time

No fingering doesn't hurt if your boyfriend is gently with you and if it does start to hurt tell him to stop and when my boyfriend finger's me I just kiss him and look into his eyes if he's looking at me. Its really enjoyable and u'll love it but if you think it doesn't feel right then don't do anything you don't wanna do.

so m and my boyfriend have been going out for more than a year now and he fingered me recently and he was sooo good and it didnt hurt but it depeneds on you mostly, guide his hand with urs and be sure to let him know when its starting to get uncomfortable NEVER LET A GUY IN UNLESS your WET !!! let him start on the outside of your pants and work his way in this way you get stimulatee and have the opportunity to get wet if your still not wet ask him to lube his fingers

as for what you should do while hes down there: try to stay close to him or have some contact - massage his d**k but be sure to remember your trying to get pleased so keep it minimal.

sometimes it can feel better than actual intercourse!! It's awesome!!!

if your dude is good enough at fingering you won't have the breath to think about what to do during the act

4 some girls it will hurt

talk dirthy to him and kiss him

jasmeinklio, you need some help
start eating more than a bannana at lunch, if he doenst like you for who you are its not worth it.
and I dont see why you need to disclose your weight to him. if it's private then you shouldnt feel the need to tell him!
if when he talks to other girls bothers you, talk to him about it and tell him you dont like that.
and do not let a guy finger you and feel your boobs just so he'll like you.its natural and it will happen when the time is right.
Dont lie to make yourself feel better.
hope this helps

I agree with this dont lie to make a guy feel good...im a guy and when my girlfriend lied to me about her weight sayin she was 110 and I found out that she was 146 it hurt me because she lied...then again sounds like the dude your with is a total asshole it he does that...u see? it looks as if hes going to rap e u! find someone who likes you for WHO you REALY R...h ell my girlfriend used my cousin to get to me and when I saw who she realy was I fell head over heals in love with her...hope dis helped

chaos is power,
pyrofire666

p.s. when you do slap him I mean he realy shouldnt talk about OTHER gurls to his girlfriend thats f***ed up girl slap him hard for what hes done to you... I no it will be tough but its 4 your own good...hope I helped...again

chaos is power...again,
pyrofire666

fingering DOESSS not hurt, make sure he only uses ONEEE finger at first though. or else it might hurt until he loosens you up..

and alsoo when you get fingered makeouut or something, it makes it more comfortable for both of you..

the first time I got fingered I started sweating and so did my bestfriend. I think thats just because its something so new to you.

dont worry, youll be fine

have fun, hopet his helps!

I personally don't like getting fingered. I'd rather pleausure him at the same time I am. that why sex is uhh-mazing.

First off you must be ready and make sure your pretty serious with this guy! when I got fingered it was wit a guy that I wasnt even wit , so for me it wasnt as pleasuable then I suppose it would be if you were wit someone you loved! it doesnt hert but if they go to fast or there figures are realy rough then it could it just depends on how tight you are! you may bleed but most of the time you dont while being fingured!
good luck
be clean and be ready!

I think that when he is fingering you, make him feel good by letting him know how good it feels. Moan and act like your really aroused.

Well I Was Really Worried At First, And My First Time It Being Done To Me Was Only The Other Day. If You Just Relax And Not Be Tense Whilst Hes Doing It, Then It Should Be An Enjoyable Moment. All People Are Different, With Some It Can Hurt And Some It Doesnt, But If He Uses Just 1 Finger Its Usually Fine And You Wont Bleed.
I Wasnt To Sure What To Do While He Was Doing It, But Either Just Laying There Or Kissing, Both Are Perfectly Fine. But At Any Point If Your Unsure Or Not Comfortable Just Tell Him x

it doesnt hurt.. it feels amazing actually

when the guy starts I usually feel a litttle lightheaded is that normal?