How do you finger yourself?

Well I want to finger myself but I don't really know how. What should I use, and will it hurt?

it depends on how you finger yourself. for starters do it nice and slow in the beginning

Well...fingering yourself is pretty easy...just rub on your clit first.(the upper part of your lips) till it tingles...and when you start enjoying it stick a finger in yourself or maybe two while still rubbing your clit...go faster and faster...and ater a few times you'll cum Enjoy!!

Okay, a male perspective:

I shouldn't be in this thread, but here you go anyway... All women are a little different in what they want down there. Some are oversensitive, some need extreme contact (including nipples, probing, rubbing, etc.), and some are just too uncomfortable with this process to enjoy it (which should be overcome if possible to allow themself to feel pleasure without a man to do it to them which is good for other parts of the psyche as well). One thing that is pretty universal is the clitoris, but how is the real question. Repetitious movement starting very slow and indirectly is usually a good way to start . Rub the outside of the labia in slow circles around the clitoris until there is sufficient moisture to apply the fingers directly to the clitoris. Orgasms come in all different sizes and so don't expect to be racked with mind-blowing waves of endorphins or extreme soaking from the vulva every single time. The process should be about exploration and learning your body. So find a nice quiet setting where you can have some privacy and go to town. Good Luck.

First of all make sure you're alone and comfortable. Strip naked and go take a shower, explore your body, touch yourself to see what you like and where. If you want to let your mind wander and fantasise, go ahead. Watch how your body changes as you touch yourself - I'm not talking about going straight for the jackpot, explore your WHOLE body! When you're done in the shower go get comfortable somewhere with a hand mirror and look at yourself, all over and when you're ready, look at your genitals. Explore yourself and watch how you respond, go with the flow, don't do things that don't feel good and do the things that do. Don't set a deadline or start it with the sole intention of orgasming, it might not happen but if it doesn't so what...it will one day! You've got to learn what works for you, what stimulates your body AND mind. And once you've worked that out you'll be able to pleasure yourself without fear or confusion and better still you'll be able to teach your partner how as well!

And as for Cuatis...masturbation isn't wrong or gross and is a perfectly normal, natural expression of oneself. I suggest you learn a bit about your body as well, you can't expect any partner to ever know how to please you sexually, if you don't know yourself now can you!

play w/ your self for a little while then when your wet stick 1or2 fingers up your hole if you dont want to use your fingers use a rounded brush handle plesure your self for a while and then u'll cum and omg it feels so so good

It's NORMAL to masturbate (exploring youself would be fun) just dont abuse it OK!
-I was like the other girls before and always feels uncomfortable talkin thing like that but then I got curious
at first if you dont feel like doing it but you want to find out badly what to do is:
-Tap your vigina till you feel the stimulation
-insert your mid finger and rub it on your clit
-if a men's pen!s is hardening so is women's
-you will feel better once it's starts to release fluid insde
(Try to do it while you're lyin on the floor, Bend a little while doing it ,it's better)
You can play with your n!pp£3 while doing it, wet and rub your nip and THERE you GO

depends how ya finger yourself.
Most of the time it doesnt hurt

I normally just stick two in my puss, then bend them... it feels SO F*cking good!!!
and... I've used a hairbrush handle... that felt better...
it all depends on what you can handle...

and I want to try a vibrating thing, but I dont have any... =/ anyone have any ideas??

Its very actually fun sexy and easy,

ok

get naked and wet and messy , and bath/shower is the best. then

get your finger massage your clit then slide your finger gentley slowely up into your vagina. once its in, make sure that your comfy not in pain so you can do it faster and massage in the whole. yummy

for me fingering myself is better because you can do what you want to do! a guy does whatever he would do with his dick. doing it yourself you can put the dick where YOU want to!I just use my finger and put wherever feels good! or I just rub if idon't feel like taking the time!
Have fun little one! because I've been doing it for years and havn't told a soul!(except everyone who reads this!)yikes!
well anywayz, Luv ya hun!

isnt fingering youself wrong? some people think that makes you lonely

I can't orgasim when I finger myself. And I'm 15 I can't by any toy to use have any suggestions?

why dont you just have sex? it feels way better than just two fingers

as for the whole fist in your pu**y?? wow... never tried that before...how do you do that? and the toothbrush...ummm...think im gunna try that =) as for me normally pleasuring myself, I normally take a bit of lube and rub it abainst my cl*t, and when I'm ready for it... I reach for the g-spot (upper wall of your pu**y - feels like a coin) stick two fingers in there... make come here motions and my oh my it feel GREAT!!

off to try the tooth brush =)

I just stick my fingers up my croche
it doesnt hurt,it feels good

it stupid to do that why dont you get a guy to stick is dick in you it feels better trust me

I totally agree. masterbating and fingering and the urge to have sex is perfectly normal because im 13.I agree that having your dog lick it is just plain a** nasty though it does feel good because they lick my hand and all that and I can imagine that feeling on my pu**y.
to be honest with you, Do Not stick a pen er pencil. that sh*t is nasty, its just as bad as the dog thing. finger your self if you want, I do that sometimes, or masterbate. but the one that I do most of the time that feels the BEST is sticking the corner of a pillow up my pu**y. it feels sooo great. if you just start rubbing it around and the go deeper and deeper.but have a mirror in your other hand and be relaxedd lie flat on your bed, look into the mirror and stick watever you want to stick up there. but you should reallly try the pillow idea, its amazing

and no you cant get pregnant, you can only get pregnant if a guy does it to you and there it sperm on his hand. but that is possible.

I masturbate myself by rubbing my clitoris...but the best I use are the electric toothbrush or the body masage machine its perfect than to have sex...

hahaha. ya I came on here asking myself the same question lol. I do the usual finger stuff, and think about my drop dead sexy boyfriend (BIG TURN ON)... I love him sooo much... I just suck at pleasuring him... can anyone help me?

if you have a bath tub putting your legs up and letting the water go on your vagina it feels great, what is even better is when your in a hot tub and you have the jet sitting on that and letting it go on and around your vagina feels amazing!! it gives me the best orgasim ever!