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Fingering?

Asked by jon over 4 years ago, 4 answers.

ok me and my girl have been goin out for a while and well weve made out and stuff and she wantes me to finger her but the problem is i dont know how...ive been stalling from her and im scared cuz she a virgin and she says she tried to finger herself but...

she said it really hurts her cuz she super tight,well i really need some advice..wats a good strategy? how do i approach it? it would be nice to hear it from a girl..oh yea and i can i make her cum by fingering?and if so how?

Answered by spade49 on Feb 18, 2007, 06:50AM
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If you can manage to use both hands at different tempos, she'll be juicing all over the place. While you use the tips of your fingers on one hand to rub her clitoris in a circular motion, use the index and middle fingers of the other hand to glide in and out of her vagina.

The multiple sensations will serve to increase her chances of reaching orgasm. And it's not a race; you don't have to go as fast as humanly possible. Just keep a steady rhythm. If she wants it faster, she'll let you know. At least, she should.

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If only you could be in my head... Answered by sikashimmer on Aug 06, 2005, 10:40PM
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Your questions are hard to truely answer because every woman is different and receives pleasure differently. Some cannot stand their clit to be stimulated and others have to have it stimulated to orgasm.

If she is a virgin make sure you use some lube if you put your finger inside her, that should lessen the friction and not hurt as bad. Make sure your nails are trimmed but not sharp and that you wash your hands as you do not what to give her and infection or scratch her.

She will have discomfort, as a virgin her hymen may still be intact. Hymens are all different... so her level of discomfort could vary.

Encourage her to masturbate to help her vagina to get used to being stretched and such. Then maybe she'll learn a few tricks to teach you happy

Here's a good site with alot of info: http://www.the-clitoris.com

Answered by goldengirl on Aug 13, 2005, 05:56PM
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The reason shes tight down there is because shes a virgin, the hymen (the skin the covers the majority of the opening of a girls vagina) has not been broken by penetrative sex. So you need to be very slow and careful, she will help guide you in if you cant find the right hole.
The basic action is just imitating sex, in and out, as you enter her curve the end of your finger up very slightly and massage her, see how she reacts, this is usually the place where you would find the G-spot ( very sensative part in a womans vagina )
I hope this helps
good luck

Answered by kiwi on Aug 21, 2005, 04:34PM
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well if you do one finger at a time one at first then once she gets use to it then maybe 2 but yea

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