What if I was forced to do sex stuff with my ex?

What do I do if I was forced to makeout with my ex boyfriend and he fingered me? it was my first time being fingered and I dont want my friends to think im a slut, because I didnt want to do it. What should I tell them and what if my parents find out? Help me PLEASE! I dont know what to say.

I cant believe what evilpinkpunkfairy just said! YES, it IS a big deal to get fingered...when it is being forced!! You really need to tell your parents what he did to you. What he did was bad enough without your consent. What would you have done if he raped you? Tell someone you trust, and stay away from your ex!

ok dont worry about it hunni! people wont think your a slut if you only tell your really close mates who you trust fully and if you explain that you didn't want it or anything. anyway getting fingered really isnt that bigger a deal! how old are you? and dont worry im sure your parents wont find out! and if they do just explain you tried to stop him and you didn't want it or anything x

He violated you. Suggar coat it by saying it was only fingering but it was a form of rape if you told him " and O " He could get in a lot of trouble because of it. You have to decide what you will do about it. I think most of us here would tell you to talk to your mom about it.
Good luck
Gino

I had that experienced of being forced to perform oral sex w/ my ex as I knew he was so jealous because I love my boyfriend of 17 months as I was w/ my ex for only TWO months. Yet, he was so obessed w/ me when I love my boyfriend! I want him out of my life for good as I love my boyfriend dearly! I did threatened that ex with lawyer and wish him be arrested because he had crime records that I take a big advantage for what he had done to me. I haven't told my boyfriend about this til 2 mos ago. That when I realized that ex didn't tell my boyfriend the whole truth but vaguely with different stories! To be honest I wish I never dated w/ that ex because he made me sick to my tummy for what he had done to me and refused to tell my boyfriend the truth that he FORCED me doing bj and TOUCHED all over me because he missed me and even begged me to break up w/ my boyfriend which I told him HELL NO I am sorry I can't do that because I love my boyfriend dearly as he treats me much better than my bastard ex!

Forgot to add to my first message I just sent few mins ago... I felt that it is necessary to file charge against the ex if it is actually forced action alike I said I had threatened him w/ case that I was thinking abt file charge against that bastard ex for force plus didn't respect my boyfriend's words after my boyfriend warned the ex NOT EVER TOUCH MY WOMAN! Sadly that this ex has no respect for him especially me! because of the way I'm being so great lady that my boyfriend loves all about me!!!

thanks but im only 13 and he was only 14, so its not like we can go to court and have a huge trial over something so little.

no big deal..u should have enjoyed it..it is supposed to feel good but w/e

Keep it to your self,but if you do need to talk to someone about it tell some who won't tell anyone because you don't it geting out.