Fingered

Well l have a boyfriend of mine and the thing is that when we are making love together he asks me to sleep with him but l always refuse because l dont want to loose my viginity now so he starts fingering me with his hand so l feel the pain deep down because he put them straight to my vagina but the thing is that he wont reach there because he will be blocked so that is when I feel the most pain, So what I want to know is that is there any cure about that will l loose my vigin though that?

Please help me because l need to know this before he continues this with me.

thank you;.

Your question is not very clear. You want to know if there is a cure for the pain of tearing your hymen and if fingering makes you lose your virginity?

First of all... I guess if you got really technical and got some kind of numbing gel... that might reduce the pain but I do not reccommend it. It would probably cause an infection.

And Virginity is a spiritual attribute, not a physical one. Meaning that the state of your hymen is no indication of your virginity. When you have intercourse (western belief) is when you lose your virginity.

there is no way to block the pain of virginity! It really doesnt even hurt that bad it is uncomfortable at first and then when he hits the hymen with the head of his pen*s it will hurt for about 30 seconds! You really shouldnt listen to some peoples advice.

I would suggest that you advize him to be gentle with you abnd to go slow othyer wise there will be blood every where