How to know if she wants me to?

I've been going out wit my girlfriend for nearly 2 months and in school im bein slaged because I avnt fingered her yet. I rli wan 2 finger her but I dont no if she wans 2 b fingered and I dont no how 2

You have to give girls time to be comfortable, so the best thing you can do is wait for her to be ready. Remember, the most important thing to do for a girl that you really love is honor and respect her, just give her some time. Just talk to her about how you feel, but be considerate towards her feelings and let her know that it's just something you thought about and that you'd rather have her decide when she wants to be fingered, remember that it's HER body, not yours.

If you want to learn about foreplay before you jump into what I just said, I can funmail you a link to a educational website about sex and foreplay, but it really helps people who are new, semi-new, and intermediate at sex (or foreplay).

Good luck.

First off. A girlfriend isnt just an object. She is a person, with feelings just like you! NEVER do something without her permission, just because you are getting pressured by your peers. Respect her, and since you dont know if she is ready, then you need to wait until she at least brings it up, or until you've talked about it together!

Ugh... what the f*ck why does everyone think it's okay to do sexual stuff within weeks or months of their relationship when their young.. I mean the chances of anyone staying with therere boyfriend/girlfriend and marring them from middle or high school is vary slim.

Why is everyone making fun of you because you haven't done it yet? How do they know what you have or haven't done if you aren't telling them? Grow up first, then think about this.