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What if i have feelings for my ex but i'm now taken?

Asked by djscraig1 over 2 years ago, 4 answers.

Ages ago i went out with a girl who i was with for around 6 months. We kinda stopped seeing eachother and hardly spoke. (We were both around 15.. i am now nearly 17) I randomly asked her one day, are we still togeather and she said she had another...

boyfriend. That upset me alot. I Kinda forgot about it and was single for months. I had known a girl for ages and i was very close to her. I Finally asked her out and i am currently going out with her. Tonight i went and saw my ex girlfriend (as friends) and we had a friendly talk... she said she may have split up with her boyfriend. I went to walk her home and she wanted a friendly hug. I hugged her and knew deep down instide i had strong feelings for her, and alwase had done. She then looked in my eyes and kissed me... i kissed her too but i felt guilt for my girlfriend. I Really really feel for my ex but i am now feeling confused in what to do. My ex says she was upset and didnt know what she was doing... i belive different, i think she loves me just as much as i love her!

If anyone has been in the same situation or has some advice for me it would be greatly appreciated.

rawr im a dinasour :] Answered by kimm_2011 on Jul 31, 2007, 06:18PM
29 answers

i think that u should tell ur current g.f wats going on, dont leave her in the dark. but before u talk to ur g.f talk to ur ex and tell her how u feel. once u do that ask her how she feels about it. mayb she still does feel the same way. but if u liike someone else strongly and not ur g.f dont go out with her cause u may end up hurting her later on..
hope i helped :]

umm famous! Answered by hugsxkisses on Jul 31, 2007, 08:44PM
42 answers

i think you should dump ur current girlfriend if you are that deeply in love with ur ex..

ME Answered by fungirl77 on Aug 02, 2007, 09:56AM
57 answers

I HAVE BEEN IN THE SAME SITUATION. I HAD AN EX THAT I WAS DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH AND HE BROKE UP WITH ME WHEN I FOUND A NEW BOYFRIEND MY EX NEEDED ME THERE WHILE A GRANDPARENT OF HIS WAS IN THE HOSPITAL WELL MY CURRENT BOYFRIEND SAID THAT IT WAS OK TO GO WELL I WENT AND I TOOK HIM HOME WHEN I DROPPED HIM OFF HE WANTED A HUG I GAVE IT TO HIM HE ENDED UP KISSING ME AND I KISSED HIM BACK I FELT HORRIBLE. WE HAD BROKE UP FOR A REASON AND I WAS WITH MY CURRENT BOYFRIEND FOR A REASON SO I KEPT IT TO MYSELF THAT WE KISSED BUT I STAYED WITH MY BOYFRIEND CUZ I REMEMBERED WHAT I HAVE BEEN TOLD BY SEVERAL PEOPLE IF U BROKE UP FOR A REASON THEN WHY GO BACK WITH THEM THE PROBLEM WILL JUST REACURE SOMETIME.

Answered by djscraig1 on Aug 02, 2007, 09:29PM

Yeah very true, thanks for the advice people! She texted me and said she told her boyfriend and that they sorted everything out, so i guess ill have to forget about it all and put her in the past..

Thanks :D

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