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Feeling humiliated by someone what to do?

Thunder Robot Asked by funadvice 3 months ago, 6 answers.
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I won't mention names but, I'm feeling real humiliated by someone.
This person is from here!! What should I do? She answered a question that she already answered. I don't want this question deleted. I won't mention names like I said.
I think I failed. I shouldn't throw my beliefs on people or anything. I do promise not to ask anymore political questions that goes for religion. If you noticed, I haven't asked anything about my religion since I'll keep that private. This person wants me to google any question I ask. Maybe this person doesn't want me to ask any questions.
I'm sick of this person and wish this person would leave me alone. Hope I won't get deleted. I mean hope this question doesn't get deleted since I haven't mentioned any names. I'm feeling ashamed and guilty. Maybe I do spread false rumors and throw my beliefs on people but, that's the way I am sometimes.
From now on, I won't ask anymore political questions or religious questions that seem to get me in trouble. Please!! help. I feel stupid.

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Jeremy Goodrich yep, that's me Answered by thedude on Aug 08, 2008, 09:28PM
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Hi there-

Everybody makes mistakes - don't take it personally Please?

And, while we all have different beliefs, one of my goals with this site is to both ensure people feel comfortable expressing those, and can learn something about different points of view.

Eg, we're all different Even among a group of the "same" people, you find differences.

Personally, I think the whole issue should be forgotten, and don't worry: we appreciate your participation here, TONS.

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dog Answered by amblessed on Aug 08, 2008, 10:10PM
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I know what you mean - there are those on here who enjoy being a bully and do their best to, in effect, shout you down and write a hate-filled diatribe' personally attacking you and often using language disrespectful of your beliefs and your God - goodgirl124, you do a great job here - I've seen wild rants having nothing to do with the topic, claiming they can read 'intent' when you ask a question - hopefully the powers that be, here will monitor and eliminate that kind of conduct, making this a better / more enjoyable site...Take care !!

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Answered by bluedrops on Aug 08, 2008, 10:18PM
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You have every right to ask questions about polotics and religion! I think you should continue to do so.

Also, most of the questions on here are things that could be found out in other ways so don't feel bad about that.

I have a story, you can decide how it is relevant to your situation. I am 26 now, but when I was thirteen, I was sitting in my driveway with a friend, and we were throwing rocks into the road in front of my house. We were only throwing them hard enough to go partway out into the street. My neighbor came outside and we continued to throw rocks, but they didn't come anywhere near her. A few minutes after she went inside her husband came out and yelled at us, saying we were throwing rocks at his wife. I can see how they may have thought that, but it wasn't our intention, and they were nowhere near her! Athough we tried to explain, he was really mad and told my dad we threw rocks at his wife!

My dad made me go to their door, alone, and apologize. I went to the door and the husband answered. I said basically, "I'm sorry we were throwing rocks into the street and it had nothing to do with your wife, we had already been doing that. I can see why you both were upset and I just want you guys to know we weren't trying to hit her and we won't do that anymore."

He said, "If you want to play games I can play that game! You don't want to know what will hapen if you do anything like that again. I can play games too!"

Something to that effect, A grown man, to a thirteen year old!

The point is, I felt embarassed and stupid, but soon I realized how unfortunate it was that an adult could be so ignorant and mean, and that it was his problem, not mine! I learned not to throw rocks into the street anymore, but he probably didn't learn a thing. This is too long already but basically, sometimes a thirteen, fourteen year old can have more wisdom in some ways than 'certain' adults. You need to remember that some people, even 49 year old women, can be blind to how they make others feel, and it has nothing to do with you! They are probably that rude to most anyone they disagree with!

Don't feel bad. Worry about your own behavior and realize some people are just mean ( I agree with you, I did some research). How YOU react to things is what matters.

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Not nice to laugh at other's short comings Answered by ethmer on Aug 09, 2008, 06:13AM
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Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on Aug 09, 2008, 11:47AM
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This site is for asking questions.And you should be able to do that.If you want to ask a question about religion are politics ask it.If you let people tell you want questions you should ask on a question and answer site what are you going to do next?Don't feel humiliated by what someone else is saying.That's there job.
If someone is harassing you hit the report abuse key.

kitty Answered by ty on Aug 09, 2008, 02:16PM
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You admit to spreading false rumors? Well I think the simple solution would be to stop...
No one has stopped you from asking your questions, people are allowed to have their opinions, just as you have yours... You are going to get people who dont agree with it... Part of growing up and being mature is learning how to deal with not everyone agreeing with what you say... As for googling what you say, researching something before making a statement has never done anyone any harm...

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