Fantasies about my wife

Since I have discovered my wife is having an affair, I have begun fantasising about her being slutty with other men and groups of men.

Do any other husbands have similar fantasies? What do you fantasise about?

Oh yes they do, My boyfriend of 4 years has told me he has those same fantasy's about me, but I've never cheated on him, so I think its an overall men thing you want it to be played out like a porno, does that sound right?

(and thank you for your advice on fake boobies, it was very helpful but the thing about you geting jealous on the whole attention thing, thats his only problem too , so I dont get that still)

I think the thing you need to focus on now is if you want to stay with your cheating wife! fantatsies are normal and can be very weird at times buts its harmless, you have bigger issues to deal with.

thats just wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Let your Fantasies becomes reality and enjoy it together ..

To be honest, Im surprised that you would have such fantasies... I think it's wrong. I completely disagree with the comment above mine. Just because your wife had an affair, that doesnt mean she wants to do it again. It definately does not mean that she is slutty. Your wife is not your wh0re. I think you should stop having those fantasies by getting a hobby. Such fantasies might end your marriage as I doubt she would like knowing you fantasize about her being with other men. We women want our men to want us with a reasonable amount of jealousy.