Family problems

I just turned 14 may 1st. I havent had much of a steady relationship with my dad for a little over a yr now. My parents got divorced when I was 4, so I've been mainly living with my mom since then. I stopped talking to him b/c of one incident where his...

yelling and screaming just crossed the line. He would talk so much crap about my mom and I just wouldnt say anything. I've been a pretty angry kid when it comes to my mom and my grandparents b/c I have a lot of anger built up inside b/c of this, and another long family, money issue regarding my uncle. I love my mom more then anything in the world. And im starting to make bad choices with my friends and I havent even hit highschool yet. I'm hoping I'll grow out of it. Has anyone else gone through something like this?

Life is choices - for your own sake...make good ones - you are not predisposed to make bad ones because they did...that's a copout.

yeah my life has been very similar in some ways, my parents divorced because my dad had a drinking problem and was always angry and sometimes abusive. but he's changed so much over time and so now its just mainly my mom that has problems. we all make bad choices though, you're not alone!

mine is almost identical to what you are describing dont worry baby just dont make bad choices I just wrote about it all the time and it also helps to have someone to talk to and maybe you should tell the adults around you how you feel

thanks