Did he just want sex from me?

hey I'm 13 and I have this exboyfriend that I'm really close to and I lost my virginity to and we were in this really strong relationship before the sex happened but after we had sex for the first time everything went downhill.Like fights and cheating and just everything.Do you think it could be because he just wanted sex from me.?

I hate to break it to you sweetie, but there is not one 13 year old boy who doesnt have sex on his mind 24/7, and expecting them to want to be with just one girl is is impossible. giving away your virginity so young to someone that you dont love (im not going to say married to cause its '08 now) wasnt the greatest idea. My advice to you is not be with anyone again until you know 100% that youre ready to, you think you are now, but trust me, youre not. I had sex when I was young too and I regret it everyday. But you live, you learn, and you move on. So you need to move on and focus on yourself. Good luck in life!

ya, Let me guess, he's older than you and right after the sex he started being an as*hole to you. lol, I Dated a couple girls I didn't really like just for sex. Live and learn itslaurenbby. Will you learn from your mistake? and what if he knocked you up, then what

I'm really sorry you had to learn this the hard way but a thirteen year old is not yet mature to know what he wants

I'm pretty sure 13 is not an age to initiate in sexual activities, but since it is too late for that, lol, I would think.. yes he just wants you for sex, becareful because some guys are ridiculous, and only choose you for what they want, and then dump you... watch who you mess with.. because this could help you in the future! :]