Everyone knows what happened

woaaah.. okay, well I gave my boyfriend a handjob..over the long weekend. and I came back to school and everyone was like wow, I cant believe you did that, like wow. and like I just feel like a whore..but for the guys that know, they're all like yeahh! you the mannn..to my boyfriend. and well, I dont know,. I mean I love my boyfriend but we might end up breaking up because our relationship is mainly based on the touchy making out stuff. and I mean, I really would never want to break up with him but I might have to if this keeps happening.. I just need some help in how to talk to him more. we've talked about how we make out too much and im supose to go over friday and we're just going to watch a movie without making out. I doubt that will even happen..but like I just need some tips on stuff. like mann everyone knows what happened and I dont like being called a whore and being judged cause.. I mean thats the first time I've done ANYTHING like that.. its just not cool at all for everyone to have to know about it.. gaaah just needing some talking please love love * thankss alott.

You need to tell your bragging boyfriend that if he continues to tell all the guys what you and him do, then you'll really give him something to talk about!(Like the word 'NO') Why dont you test him without him knowing. Whenever you 2 get together, and things end up like they usually do, ignore his advances. Do it so casually though. Everytime he makes any moves, start a convo, or say 'hey, lets go for a walk, and just talk.' Then tell him how the guys at school are making you feel. Tell him that your starting to feel like his little sex toy, and nothing more. Ask him if he just wants a girlfriend for the pleasure or does he really like you! If I were you, I would stop giving in to him, because each time, its going to go alittle farther! Thats when your really going to start to feel like a whore! Respect yourself, and make him respect you too. If he cant do that, then hes not worth keeping. Theres way more to a relationship than being physical with your partner! Good Luck Hun!!

omg this happened to me as well!!!! I gave my boyfriend a handjob then I come to school and EVERYONE knew I was soooo embarressed I felt like a slut like I had been used (btw im 13 and this happened 2 weeks ago) but me and my boyfriend talked about it and to be honest he got a worse time than me ..and it was my first time doing anything like that but the best thing to do I felt was to just laugh it off like make them not so sure it happend and when they say things bout it just laugh at it dont retaliate because now its all forgotten about so it will all blow over ..and I know it kinda stops you from trusting your boyfriend anymore because even though me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months I do NOT trust him anything like I used to and never will ...but talk to him YOU NEED TO TALK ABOUT IT relationships are built on trust and conversation so you need to work this out with him ..bring it up casually and then get more serious but dont blame it all on him till you know the full story ..im sorry for you but I promise you it will be ok ..I know
hope this helped xxx

He was a dog by telling. If he loved you the way you are supposed to be loved, he would have taken that info to his grave. But...he is probably young, and was excited. He's probably upset with himself for telling, so talk to him and get his true feelings. If he's not sorry, dump his butt and soon.

Well I know what you are saying beacause I know what just a touch relationship is like. Belive me if you really did care for him than just tell him that you need a break from making out and stuff. Also tell him that if he contiues to tell his friends about ever detail of your personal life than he can just go find someone else that is more open than you. I think that what happens behinds closed doors should stay there. For easy adive on how to avoid making out if you don;'t want to. Have some of your common friends over. That way theres no chance of a quick lip lock session which could lead to more things. Just becarul an don't do anyhting else with him because if he wil tlak aobut a handjob immagine what it would be like if it was someting evermore intimate. You don't need to get a reputation jsut becuase one guy can't keep his mouth shut.