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Okay, I've dated this guy acouple times and we really like eachother anyway, we broke up cause we fight to much but we still do stuff together.. All the time! Anyway he just wants to be friends even though we do all this stuff together he doesn't want to...

be labled as my boyfriend anymore cause he says I change, my question is. Is he using me?

are you two sexually active together?

What do you mean by, you do stuff together? Do you mean that sexually or what?

No not sexually we hang out a lot kiss a lot, lay down together talk in the phone for three hours each night, things girlfriend and boyfriend do..

Oh I see... sounds like he wants the comfort of a girlfriend and boyfriend relationship but he doesn't want the label as taken or in a relationship. He seems to just want to be friends with benefits with you. If you feel like you're still emotionally involved then you should back out of it now for your own good.

Yeah, it seems like he's using you. He doesn't want to say you're his girlfriend in case he finds someone else.. I think he's going to end up hurting you..=)

Thanks guys, wow your probably right.. But I like this guy so much and I'm not a stupid girl I know when I really like someone and he feels the same way about me.. But says that when we date I sumhow change, he even told me he doesn't want to be friends with benifits he just wants
To be normal people and of we ever did
Anything it's cause it just happend, and I don't want to get hurt, should I like stop kissing him and stuff.. ? Sorry it's hard to explain this by typing I hope someone understands me..

If the stuff is sexual, then definitley. If the stuff isn't, then, maybe. I don't know. He might just be contacting you when there's nothing (or no one) else to do.

long answer short YES.. you should stop doing stuff, koz there is no difference to him if your his girlfriend or not he still gets stuff from u

That exact same thing happend to me, me and my boyfriend broke up because we was fighting all the time.
after about a month of splittin up we started doing stuff again. And I got my hopes up thinkin we was going to get back together again. but I was wrong he was using me.
but then mayb your relationship is different, mayb he wants to build it up again, and start over, ask him why he is doing this with you. does he want you back or not? the only thing you can really do is ask him yourself x