Ever since my new boyfriend I've been really quiet

I've seemed really sad to EVERYONE.
I hardly talk, im always spaced out, im quiet
& im the total oppisite of that.
I don't know why I've been like this lately...
I dont have a specific question to ask...
but other than what should I do...
oh yeah, & me & my boyfriend hardly talk, its stupid...
pff.. well yeah...
I dont think I want to break up with him, but I dont want to keep being like this either...

I think you should talk to him about it because otherwise he won't know how you feel. me and my boyfriend weren't talking at all...so I told him I wanted to talk more and now we talk like every minute of the day! just tell him how you feel, he'll understand if he's a good boyfriend.

This doesnt really seem to be your bfs issue but yours?
Maybe if you fig out why exactly you've been quiet?

I don't know why I've been quiet.
at all.
im stoppid =/

ok, so what exactly do you feel around your friends?
what would happen if you talked around them or around your boyfriend?

my boyfriend & I dont even talk.
I dont really talk to anyone,
I feel like my body is there; but my mind isent.
I cant explain it.
but thanks a lot for trying to help I APPRICIATE that; yur taking yur own time to try to help me with a problem ;]

Doesnt sound like hes right for ya.

see, he's laid back and your outgoing from what I can tell, so he doesnt see fun in talking on the phone or hanging out for long periods of time while you crave it, so with the lack of it you start turning into him :P

Im talking from experience lol

 
It doesn't sound like a problem with your boyfriend.

It sounds like something within you is causing you to be withdrawn.

It could be related to hormonal and emotional changes that are taking place in your life right now which might sort of be leaving you confused.

I'd suggest that one way to help solve the problem is to pick one of the Advisors on this site and start Fun Mailing them and using them as a sounding board. Don't be afraid to express ANYTHING with them. They will keep your communications private and they are very capable of helping you through these trying times.

Ted

yeah being spaced out is a normal feeling, but not all the time... why are you feeling spacey?
are you avoiding feeling something? are things going ok with you and your boyfriend?

and Ted is right, you can talk to us if you like, most of the advisors are pretty good listeners...

I had a boyfriend once and we would barely talk because I was afraid to say anything to hurt our relationship but that ends up making it worse so just try to speak up...if he doesn't like you for who you are so be it...he doesnt deserve you