Ever since him... I can't have another!!

Ever since I've been finished with my ex (8 months ago) I haven't seemed to be able to get someone else... I've dated other guys but never had the same connection as I had with him... I am over him... but I can't seem to get over that feeling I once had!!! Please help... I feel like I'm discouraging other guys, they either just want me as a friend or they're not interested!!! Before (when I was with my ex) There were a lot of guys that wanted to go out with me... now it's all changed!!! what shall I do?

Obviously don't listen to the insensitive jerk who said you're not hot enough. Your breakup may have changed your personality a little bit without you realizing, or maybe you're more hesitant than you used to be with relationships after your breakup- there is a world of possibilities. The important thing is to remember to be yourself, and honestly, there's a good trick to getting a guy: stop looking. If you stop trying so hard, maybe skip a few dates or go and take a month off to do something for yourself, whatever, then you'll appear much more relaxed and guys will approach you more. If you keep busy and try to do everything EXCEPT get dates, even if it's for a short while, you'll find that guys will see you as a confident girl and will like that you're not worrying about finding your next relationship. Also, it could take a WHILE before your next boyfriend, it's all about quality over quantity for dates. Let the right one come to you, relax and enjoy being single and it will happen, I promise. (My friend broke up with her boyfriend of 1 year, and didn't find another guy until 1 year after the breakup...but now they're getting married!)

hey liluxo, it's me (the girl who asked the question) I can't seem to log into my account... anyway thanks for the advice!!! its really made me realise!!! please e-mail me at Fun mail me and I hope to get in touch with u!!!

Its really hard to cope with a breakup especially when ya'll dated for such a long time.just try to find his qualities in other guys before you know it you'll be dating again well hope I helped

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