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Ever been played?

Asked by fau 2 months ago, 2 answers.

You ever felt like there was a moment where you loved the person you loved,and she constantly told you all the suspicions you had of her were false about her and her best friend but then a few days later after a break from the realtionship you find out...

was true all along?How would you feel?Honestly I'm just heartbroken I feel like I could drop off from the face of the earth and she would still tell me that she loved and cared for me but she will always return to that friend of hers and be jealous of his girlfriend. Like wtf man...I feel played it hurts real deep inside,she was the love of my life now she's becoming a memory that will scar me for the rest of my life...anybody ever had a relationship like this?Where you have been together with someone for YEARS and that happens to you?How'd you feel?Because from where we stand it might seem different to each other even though we can relate.

Answered by boobaaloo2 on Aug 23, 2009, 01:21PM
67 answers

I know exacally what you mean bro. I felt terrible and sometimes just thinking about it opens the scar on my heart. Me and my girl were together for years. we said we loved each other everyday. called each other when we were not together. Other things couples do. I was suspiciouse of her and I asked her about it and she denied everything I accused her of. She even Stopped being friends with the guy in front of me. Then about a month later I find her and him together kissing and his hand down her pants... Its hard bro... but we've got to move forward someway and somehow.

Answered by fau on Aug 23, 2009, 01:34PM

This doesnt necessarily mean that you were 'played'.
You have to be 100% sure that these suspicions are true like hearing it from her mouth.
Well you cant say she didnt care you say you were with her for years so I doubt that she stayed with you becoz she didnt love you.
im always jealous of my bestfriends girlfriend or boyfriend bcoz I feel as if they were becoming there bestfriend it doesnt mean that I like them its just I feel threaten.
Love for a bestfriend is natural but love for a boyfriend/girlfriend is totally different.
Could it be that your mistaking them?
Honestly if it were me and I was SURE of everything I would just let it go and move on.
Relationships dont always work out and sometimes its for the best.
Move on and be with someone new.
Sh!t happens and lifes a b!tch .