Should I end my two-year relationship?

I was in a long term committed relationship for about 2 and a half years. We love each other very much, but the only problem that got us to go our separate ways is him reminding about my ex-boyfriend and how jealous he is over the fact that I talk to a co-worker on MSN. He was going through my message history on MSN one day and found out that I was talking to a guy at work, and all we talked about was my hobby and how I love to bead jewelry. The guy then ask me why he never sees me wearing them, and then I said to him that he might see it on me next time. We were just discussing my hobby, and I wouldn't consider this as flirting would you? I gave up my whole life for my boyfriend and he still doubts my feelings. I need some advice on this! I really don't want to let him go, but our last fight was really bad, he said a lot of things that were mean and cruel. I guess this cruelness roots from jealousy, he said he felt like he was being betrayed.

Sometimes guys use things like this as a way out so he doesn't have to bring out the real reason... so maybe there is another reason why he is breaking it off? If a guy gets jealous easily I could see maybe a little little bit why he would take this as flirting... but I don't think its solid evidence that you are sleeping with him or anything! So I think he is blowing it out of proportion. Some guys have trust issues... I'll be honest I am one of them... because its hard to trust females these days (specially in California ha ... sorry cali girls :P not all of you... )... just as hard as is to trust guys I'm sure... I would talk to him once on the phone and just ask him about this, you don't feel that this is flirting/cheating and that he is overacting... but it sounds like this guy has other issues. I am not 100% ... but throwing away 2 years of time with you, over this convo... makes me think something is fishy...

Jason

Dear aprilshine,
It seems that he has a problem with you speaking to co-workers after work...so why do you do it? It isn't a huge thing to give up...unless...so yes I believe he has a reason to be upset. Keeping work relationships on a business level is always a good idea. Your personal life should be kept separate. If you were unable to discuss this and to work out this small problem then how would you be able to manage bigger problems that come with commitments? You did betray him.
Sue...good luck

So you are saying she can't have friends outside of work Sue? This guy just has trust issues, bottom line... he has been cheated on before. Or there is another reason he is doing this...

Jason

As the old saying goes we don't mix business with pleasure...most affairs happen at work. We spend 8 hours with our co-workers...how much time a day do you spend with your partner? Keeping it business like especially with co-workers is a gift from the heart you give to your partner. There are other places you can make friends.
Sue