How can i wait until marriage to have sex with these urges?

I never thought like I think now. I changed a lot and I hate the fact that I did..
I want to wait for sex after marriage. That's always been my rule, but all of a sudden I have had these sudden urges to have sex with one of my friends that previously...

had feelings for me.. I don't know why I'm feeling like this, I hate it a lot, and I feel like it's wrong..I just need SOME advice anything at all...

Dear emotional shift

Sometimes we have a sudden change due to being in the moment or peer pressure,
You probably here alot of people talking about having sex and so on. It sounds to me like you have morals and values about yourself in regards to sex. Trust your feelings and there could be a chance that your friend might not want to have sex either, If you find yourself thinking about it, I would suggest to try and masturbate it's always an option.

It is completely normal that you are having these urges, as we grow and mature our body asks for things, and these days in society it all seems normal to be having sex before marriage. Personally i see nothing wrong with a young women having a healthy sex life. I dont agree with multipule sex partners and sleezing around, but having sex with your partner i think is completely normal.
But if you are dead set in your tracks to wait till after marriage to be with a guy, maybe try masterbating yourself to relieve yourself.

It's probably hormones surging through your body. If you really want to wait, I think thats great, and you should try to wait. Waiting is very noble, and even if you do it once, you can never go back. Try to have some self control if waiting is important to you.