Am I paranoid or pregnant?

I was at a hotel with my fiance and what happened was that I was on top grinding him but my pants were on and he had his pen*s out but he didn't cumm at all. Then sunday morning he ate me out but he had his boxer's on. I am either really peranoid that I am preg. or maybe I am. I am really stressed to the max and I am worried that I am. I really need to talk to someone but there is no one that I can really go to for help. I don't have set date for my period b/c it comes at different times. I just want to cry I dont know it happened on the 14th and 15th. Please help me. I really need a friend and someone to talk to. Please anwser my question!!

ok if what you guys did was ONLY what you described above ( grining with YOUR pants on and him eating you out) there is no way that you can be pregnant. First... if you were on top of him... with your pants on, there is no way that the sperm could get through your pants and up your v*gina, especially if he didn't cu*m. So that is virtually impossible. Secondly, you cannot get pregnant from oral sex. The only way you can get pregnant is if there is a fluid exchange between you two. Also in 99% of cases you only get pregnant when you have intercourse. From your description above it does not seem like you had intercourse. Do not worry. Like I said, if that is all you did, you are not pregnant. However if you did have intercourse at any point without protection or there was fluid exhange between you and your boyfriend then maybe you should wait for your next period and if it is unreasonably late take a pregnancy test.
I hope this helped... if you need to talk don't hesitate to mail me. Good luck

if you think your pregnant take a test. it never hurts

I agree that you should take a test, but I think it is very unlikely that you are pregnant. but it would never hurt to find out for real and take a test.