Why do I feel weird during oral sex?

my boyfriend wants to eat me out... I didnt want him too., than one day I let him because he would stop asking.After I let him do that.. I felt really weird... he wanted to do it again, so I let him.. I was thinking.. "hey.. made because it was the...

first time", but than I got the same feeling...
can any one help me on what to do??? or why I have his feeling.. please...

Hmmm.. I would guess that sence your not ready you feel there is somthing wrong. This is like when I let my boyfriend touch me because he wanted to even though I wasn't really all that ready. I told him after how I felt and he promised not to do it again tll I wanted to and through some thinking I felt better and through time I was able to have him touch me again. See I just wanted to make him happy and he wanted to because he thought it would make me happy and he loves to see me happy. I think that's probley the case here. Just tell him you have a strange feeling and that you dont want too. I'm sure he'll understand.
Good Luck
~Erin~

mabey it be cause you arent use 2 it

... which feelings did you experience? I assume by weird that you mean an unpleasant feeling, but I may be wrong?
Are you talking about guilt, shame, estrangement, vulnerability? did you wish you hadn't allowed that person to experience you in such a way? Or was it a physical feeling, like wanting to pee yourself.

I'm guessing you felt weird because you just weren't ready. Don't let someone touch your body in a way you're not 110% comfortable with.
As for him asking and asking--that is not an acceptable way to behave. Your body is yours, and if he would like to touch it, honestly, that's great, but when you say no and he bullies you into letting him, that is completely wrong, and you need to stand up for yourself.
Just tell him you care about him, but you're not ready, and if that's not ok with him, kick him to the curb and find a guy (or girl) who respects you.

If your boyfriend is pressuring you (constantly asking is pressuring) then you need to take a step back! Any guy who truly cares about you, would never push you into doing anything you are not ready for, or dont want to do! You need to start taking control of your own feelings, and stop letting him control you. You should NEVER do anything you dont want to do just because your partner wants you to. It has to feel right for both, not just because HE wants it! He is not respecting your feelings, or you as a person! All that matters to him is what he gets from you. Its ok to say NO! Never let anyone tell you its not. Tell him how you feel, and be honest. If you don't feel close enough to him yet, say so!

Don't let him talk you out of what you know is right. If you make out with him, no matter how far you go, it does NOT mean that you have to go all the way. Just because he is your boyfriend, doesnt mean you have to do everything he wants you to do. If he says he'll break up with you if you dont...or "if you really love me you'd let me". DONT! All he wants is to get in your pants. Thats not what relationships are about.

You are most likely feeling the way you are ,because its not something you really want to do. If its not feeling right for you, tell him no!

thank you guys so much for all your help^^