Dumb friends

This may be long so bear with me...

I'm with this boy named cameron, he's real; koo and we talk about a lot of stuff. But saturday, I was feeling a lil depressed, I kept on thinking that he was ready for all that I have. I thought I was too much for...

him. In a text message I sent this to my friend. But in it I also put that I was starting to like his cousin, elijah. Yesterday shw went and told cameron what I told her!!! I said that I liked him because he was funny. The way she put it, she made it seem like I wanted to be with elijah..which I don't. But then me and cam was on the phone and he told me what she said. I was too heated. He wasn't mad or anything, but still, the fact that she would go behind my back and say something like that! Then today she was actin like we were friends and that she didn't so anything. And she knows what she did. She aske dme what was wrong, I never answered her. She knows what she did, I don't know why she's playin dumb. I told my friend to tel her that cam, broke up with me, because of that. (he really didn't) I just want to make her fee guilty, but I want to do more. I could tell her boyfriend a whole buinch of stuff about her. Would that be wrong? Anyways I guess what I'm trying to ask is...what should I do? I only told her that because I needed someone to talk to, and I din't want to talk to cameron about it. Also I'm not going to just let her run over me about it, thinking that's it's koo and it's alrite. Help!!! Please!

Revenge is not the answer here because its an on going process. You do something to her and then she's going to want to do something back to you and so on. In the end this isn't going to solve anything. The best thing you could do is talk to her about it. Tell her why you're mad and ask her why she did it. If her reason isn't satisfactory to you or if she denies it then maybe you should start looking for other friends that are more trustworthy. But if you do this, she is probably going to wonder why you aren't talking to her anymore. The whole thing could be just a big misunderstanding or it could not be, the only way to find out for sure is if you talk to your friend. And do it in a calm manner you don't want her to go on defense because that tends to be when the lies come. Don't accuse her of anything until you hear her side of the story.