Drop him or love him?

I#039;m only 13..so lets not take this too seriously but im going out with guy (really HOTT! haha)a grade older than me. he acts like he doesnt care about me even though he says he does...he doesnt call me, he doesnt hug me unless I go to hug him...

1st..he doesnt even say hi to me! but trust me, this guy is NOT shy. when I was talking to him yesterday his friend was more excited to see me...he acts like im not even alive! I just dont understand how I can look for him all day finally see him and he can just quickly say hi and walk away..if he doesnt like me he should make things easier on both of us and just dump me. a lot of my friends tell me jimmy does this to all his girlfriends but, I deserve better..everyone does! so I should just dupm him, simple as that! the problem is..I still like him I just cant stop. its so painful to have him keep doing this to me so, its such hell..but it would also be hell without him...what should I do?!

*if he cares, he should show it...if he doesn#039;t, then he shouldn#039;t be in the position where he#039;s supposed to.*

You answered your own question. If he#039;s not shy, and you want a guy who not only says he cares, but acts like he does, then this isn#039;t your guy. See your answer below=

*if he cares, he should show it...if he doesn#039;t, then he shouldn#039;t be in the position where he#039;s supposed to.*

quot;i still like him i just cant stop. its so painful to have him keep doing this to me so, its such hell..but it would also be hell without him...what should i do?!quot;

If it#039;s hell either way, then choose to be single where you might have the opportunity to meet someone who really likes you and isn#039;t afraid to show it.

God Bless and Good luck

thanks so much for the adivce! he dumped me and could have cared less, he ever told me he#039;d prolly go out with him ex again! Now, 2 days later he wants me back...and im sure you know im not over him yet. what do i do??

make him wait a while but not too long so that he wont like you anymore cuz if you make him wait about a weel or less then he will be more caring. and its not a bad thing that you makke the first move he might just think you dont want it.

~I think you should bring it to his attention~