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Does he love me?

Asked by rachel143 about 1 year ago, 4 answers.

I have bin with my boyfriend for 1 moth I say love him but he wont say it back and he is always tailkin about sex and ever time I try to taik to him he has a go at me

35 weeks pregnant (Yes, I have a sports-bra on) Answered by stephanief987 on Apr 01, 2008, 03:01AM
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What exactly do you mean has a go at you?
If he doesn't say it back then he probley doesn't feel that way yet. You cant really expect him to, its only been a month. If you guys aren't in love yet, you probley shouldn't be having sex. Thats just my personal opinion though, whatever floats your boat. You cant convince him to love you, don't nag at him about it. Would you rather him lie?

Newest Answered by babygirl1220 on Apr 01, 2008, 07:27AM
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I agree with Stephanie...dont nag him about it it will only push him away

its eaiser for girls to say their emotions...we all know that lol guys are much more laid back and much more closed...just because he hasnt said it yet does not mean he does not care for you its just a big step for him...one you cannot take back...and hes just not ready to take that jump.

Oh and I wouldnt really worry about the sex thing...boys are boys and no matter what you do there are going to be times where he thinks he the lower head instead of the one on his shoulders...

as long as Have a go at me means like he makes a move or he trys to get in your pants or something id say youre just in a case of a man who isnt ready to take that leap...if he means he gets upset with you or hits you GET OUT of that relationship...its not worth it!

Hope that helps at least a lil bit

Answered by angelfire2708 on Apr 01, 2008, 08:56AM
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Personally, I dont think this guy loves you, if hes talking sex already at 1month. To me thats a red flag that he has one thing on his mind.

For a man, sex is a physical act that eases the testosterone pressure he experiences constantly. Only after this tension has gone, can a man feel love towards a woman. This is why it often happens that men disappear after they got what they wanted: it wasn’t love; it was the testosterone pressure. Sex for men is the reality check of their passion.

This is why having sex early in the relationship is hazardous for women: the man has not had the time to develop any romantic feelings for her. He needs time to develop those feelings, and the only way to do it is through keeping the sexual tension going for as long as practicable.

Answered by bobbiejo_09 on Apr 02, 2008, 09:07AM
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personally,
I think it's just going to be lust, not love.
if he talks about sex, and you say you love him but he doesn't say it back.
deff lust.

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