Don't like sex

Sex as become painful for me and very uncomfortable... Whenever my boyfriend wants to have sex I push him away and when he gets the chance to have sex with me like 5minutes later I get upset and push off me.. He would just turn his back and go sleep... I...

told him but he doesnt say anything... I just dont want to have sex any more and no one can force me to... But im worried.. What if he cheats,, and wont we argue a lot? I really need some good advice...

I see...

do you get enough lubrication? it could be this that creates the pain
ever try anal sex? it might hurt a bit at the beginning but it can be as orgasmic as vaginal intercourse, maybe even more

have you visited your Gynecologist lately? or your doctor? your illness might have been the cause

your arousal levels also are a factor, if you think lets just get it over with without actually feeling any sort of lust then youll always be in pain... no lube = no fun
if you talk to him clearly he might understand your problem but I believe a bit of lube will get things fixed, if not the doctor is your friend

good luck

when did this start happening?
have you gone through a stressful situation? or does sex create physical pain and discomfort?
or is it just that YOU dont want sex at all...
sex plays quite a role in a relationship (at least I believe so) and suddenly not wanting to will make your partner feel unwanted and unloved in most cases

if you could explain why you dont want to or what caused it I could give you a better answer

physical pain and discomfort... I was ill and we didnt have sex in a long time and when we finally start having sex it just hurts... no matter how slow he goes... from that we tried..well I tried cause I didnt told him.. but it still hurts to the point now that I dont want to any more... I want him to be satisfied but not if its hurting me..

actually.. I dont like to be turned on..and I do just want him to just hurry and ejaculate let me go sleep... I dont llube enough either... ( I not into anal sex) thanks..

if he doent find pleasure with you he wil most likely find it else where. thats how guys are.