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Don't know what to do ...stepfather issues

me Asked by marchell 2 months ago, 6 answers.

I don't know what to do anymore ...
No one will believe me I am getting sexually harassed bye my step father he slaps my behind and gaped my breasts ...
I am afraid of him and don't know what to do anymore mum wont believe me and thinks I just want to...

hurt her bye saying it

Answered by dawnty on Sep 14, 2009, 08:27AM
22 answers

That is so sad and horrible. I agree with fau at the beginning, don't try and handle it yourself. Can you go to your biological father? if not go to a teacher/preacher/authorities. Some one who can guide you in this walk.

But, I do not agree with the next part, Don't let fear of what this might do within your family. THEY are the adults, and you are being put in this position. They (especially) your mother are supposed to be protecting you. You have to protect yourself.

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the new and older me! Answered by mandycats on Sep 14, 2009, 12:02AM
257 answers

GET THE F*** AWAY FROM THAT S***...Even better tho, set him up if you think you can get away with it, I dont mean lie or anything but try to plant little cameras in places he cant see then record, and if he does it to you again and its caught on tape then take it to police and they can take care of it from there.

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Answered by fau on Sep 14, 2009, 12:40AM

agree 100 percent with mandycats. You need to get proof for the police or for your mom to see. But if I were you I would take it to the police beacuse if you moms not listening to you then theres always the chance she would take the evidence from you to protect her relationship

Answered by fau on Sep 14, 2009, 05:50AM

I understand what you're going through because I went through the same thing.

You need to call child protective services. What he is doing is molestation and as an parental figure, he should know better.

Just understand that once you do take this to an authority, it will create some serious issues within your family...be prepared for that, because it isn't easy to deal with.

You do not have to put up with this but you have to tell...nobody can do anything unless you say something.

Button Answered by sethpatto on Sep 14, 2009, 07:36PM
220 answers

Can you talk to your biological father? and an aunt/uncle etc. Who will help??
it's not right for you to live like that. and you need to get out of that situation before it gets any worse.
if you have no one physically you can talk to. Get in touch with LifeLine or Befrienders.org and they will give you advice on what to do and help you find someone who can help you properly.
It’s horrible that this is happening to you, it’s not right to be living in constant fear. So don’t be afraid to get help! You deserve to live a happy, safe life.

me Answered by marchell on Sep 14, 2009, 11:40PM
14 answers

thanks guys I'll try what you said mandycat thanks you ... my real father is in a other city with his new wife I am homed schooled and last year of school now
I love my mum and I don't know how to tell her anymore about this
my sister told me ones ( shes moved out ages ago ) that he touched her and mum didn't believe her at all one huge fight after the next... and yea I am scared of him his huge and aggressive

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