Don't know what to do

alright this might be a long one...ill try to keep it short.

me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 7 months now. she graduated high school last year and she is going to college in town. I have one more year left in high school before I graduate.

ok. it started when I went to football camp last june. and let me tell you it really sucked. three practices a day that lasted 2 1/2 hours each for three days. worst three days of my summer. and while im gone, my girlfriends brother writes some stuff on my truck. big mistake on his part. so I find out while im at camp and I get more pissed off than anything. im already at this camp getting my butt kicked and there isnt anything I can do about it. so I get extremely mad and freak out on her brother on the phone and told him I was going to 'beat him up' pretty much when I got back. which in reality I wasnt going to at all. I dont fight people. not my style. the only reason I said that is because I told him I wouldnt if he just washed it off before I got back. of course he doesnt and runs and tells his mom (my girlfriends mom also).

so her mom gets really mad and bans my girlfriend from seeing me. I mean I know I overreacted while I was at camp but really he caught me at the worst time possible. I know I have a big ego and of course being stupid I dont want to apologize. but like a week later I try talking to her mom and she says she'll set something up so I can talk it out. she never gets ahold of me... so I text her and ask her when I was going to be able to and trying to get my point across you know? and she freaks out even more because shes seriously insane.

but like I really just wanted to talk it out and get it all worked out. but her freaking on me everytime I try to fix things just kept making me more mad everyday.

long story short... things have been really complicated since then. shes 18 and tried to tell her mom she wanted to move out and stuff. but she has epilepsy and has to have this medicine refilled every three months and it costs a lot of money without insurance. her mom threatens to cut her from her insurance and kick her out. which would probably end up having her daughter in the hospital. she only got kicked out one night before her mom made her move back in. so now my girlfriend has her phone taken away and I havent talked to her since last thursday and I havent seen her since not last sunday but the sunday before... and things keep getting worse..

I have no way of talking to her. I am really like...out of it. I know im in highschool but I really am in love with her. I need some advice on what to do in this kind of situation. I've tried a lot of things I just need some help. so I found this website and it looked good. I would really appreciate it if I could get some input from some people. thank you so much.

sincerely,
missing-her

Well, I would just say that you should just wait until she your girlfriend gets a hold of you in someway. Everything seems too complicated and it seems that her mom isn't given in. Just try to relax and let some time pass by. Hopefully everything works out on its own...
Good luck!

If your girlfriend's mom loves her daughter she won't actually risk her daughter going to the hospital on her own account, don't worry about that, or go to the doc and tell them the issues, they can probably arrange something. Try going to the house, make them listen and show how serious you are about talking about this.

You Sound Dedecated To This Girl obviously her mom doesn't want you takeing her daughther away from her for some reson maybe she hasn't got a husband/partner she might feel like with her daught there she's got something to focus on give attention a lot of women suffascte there kids when they feel lonley