Don't know what i should do!!

Two inahalf years ago I was seeing this guy and our relationship was great. The two of use were just like. So much you#039;d probably think we were brother and sister. Anyway, but he just moved back up here and I#039;m seeing someone else. I went to...

visit him on quot;Just as Friendsquot; terms. Needless to say that didn#039;t happen. When I got home He called and when I told him I had to go cause my boyfriend was there he started trippen telling me how it kills him inside to know that some other guy is touching me, pretty much that he#039;s taken his place. Then he started talking about hte one thing he never did when we were together was tell me he loves me.Then next thing I know a few sentences later he#039;s telling me he loves me. I love hom also but have never told him, but yet I#039;ve been w/my current boyfriend for almost a year now and I don#039;t know what to do cause I#039;ve always wanted him back . My family love smy current b/f and hates the one I really want to be with. I#039;m just stuck. Please someone out there give me some kind od advice.

Sounds like your boyfriend is history. I don#039;t particularly like the part where he#039;s yelling at you about your current boyfriend when he#039;s been gone for a year or so. What#039;d he think you were going to do? Pine for him? But it does sound like you are not into your current boyfriend. Your friends and folks can#039;t choose your boyfriends, but you know that.

Still when family and friends don#039;t like a boyfriend--there is usually a good reason. Examine how this guy treated you, really. Do you want that again?

Whatever you decide, you should let current boyfriend go so he has a chance to find someone who will appreciate him.

seems like u love this friend of urs better than ur bf. if so, than be honest to ur current bf that u don#039;t love him as much. u amp; ur friend love each other, u guys should be together. U r the one who choose a bf to make U happy, not ur family. as long as u two r happy, it doesn#039;t matter what other ppl say or think.

1 thing i agree w/ the 1st reply, is that when ur family doesn#039;t like ur friend, there#039;s got to be a reason for it. find out wat it is. but since u 2 knew each other for quite sumtime, than i think u should understand him.

in conclusion, get this love triangle fix, be honestly to both of the guys. whatever that would make U happy. other ppl#039;s opinion doesn#039;t really matter.

good luck

I understand what you said about examining the reasons my family doesn#039;t like him, but the one who really hates him is my grandma and when I ask her why she says cause you two never went anywhere. We started dating when I was sixteen. She#039;s never even talked to him, yet she has the nerve to say she doesn#039;t like him.How does a person not like someone you#039;ve never met. My current bf she loves cause he spends tons of money on me and I don#039;t know what to do cause I live with her and she#039;s a bitch who wont let him come over or even call my house phone. Anymore advice would be great

in my opinion, ur grandma doesn#039;t really care about any of ur bf. she likes ur current 1 b/c he has lots of $$. i think that#039;s all she cares. i have a question, y do u have to live with ur grandma?? anywaz, in the bottom line, if u 2 really love each other, than nothing could get in ur way.

I have to live with my grandma because I#039;m currently in college, and I don#039;t work. With me everything is getting in the way cause I don#039;t let my feelings get ahead of me. I#039;m not sure if I#039;m willing to give up everything I#039;ve gotten since he#039;s been gone. I care so much about him but.......

than i think u should concentrate on ur work 1st. wait till u#039;re ready to be independent, or at least have some $$; than dat#039;s when the time to think about love. i hope u or him could wait till that time.