Doing crap with my boyfran, heeelp.

okay well me and my boyfriend are REEEALLY close, and we've talked about doin oral and stuff for a while, but like. . .im scared? I mean, I think im ready and everything, I just. . I dont know. he's ready and I am too, im just nervous, and I DONT want to BE SCARED! most people will be like 'oh just do it, youll feel better afterwards' well, damn can SOMEONE give me a different answer than that?! I just. .dont want to be scared. we're closer than anything and yeah, blah help. please.

if your that close theres nothing to be scared of, and even if you don't believe that when you do it afterwards you will be like 'wow what was I so scared about, that was nothing'

okay first of all you're like 12 years old. so before you go slutting yourself around wait until you and you boyfriend grow out of diapers.

secondly, if you say you're scared that's an obvious sign that you're NOT READY. THINKING you're ready doesn't mean you ARE ready. at you're age guys will say anything to get you to do something sexual for them. 99.99999999999% THEY'RE TALKING OUT OF THEIR PEN*S, NOT THEIR HEART. have some self-respect little girl, you're boyfriend is lame.

Ok, tinatodder4, don't Fu**ing judge her boyfriend if you don't know him. Not all guys are like that. It's not sluty if she loves him and he loves her and their boyfriend and girlfriend. I agree that if she's scared then she's not ready, that's how I knew I wasn''t ready. So instead of being a b*tch about this, how about giving her some decent advice.

if your scared that is your body telling you no. wait till your really ready. hope I helped ~kaitlyn~

Well, if you're scared, just wait a little, because you're obviously not ready to do it yet. Once you're ready, you won't be second guessing yourself. Plus, oral sex is a big step, it's not like you can go back to just making out, you know. Don't rush this stuff.

If you and your boyfriend are as close as you say, then just talk to him and tell him you'd like to wait a little longer to do it, I'm pretty sure he'll be chill with it.

&& tinatodder4 the girl came here for advice, not to get lectured. This website is for advice, not for you to be a rude person and judge & lecture others. Grow up. [: