Does that sound mean?

vinemontgraduate2011: Kary, hey. I'm not writing you this so you can show it to anyone or for you to accept my apology or for you to be my friend again. But, I don't care what you do with it either. I'm just writing you this to be the bigger person in...

this whole thing. So...I'm sorry for whatever I've done. I'm sorry all this happened. But what you did really hurt. I mean, 2 hours after you tell me that you would never steal a friend's boyfriend, you do it anyways. You told me that you would never do it because you know how bad it hurts. It hurt very badly. But anyways. I don't know if you will accept my apology or not, but I don't care. I'm going to be the bigger person and say I'm sorry. Well got to go. See-ya around I guess.

no that is not mean...

no thats not mean but I dont understand why you would apologize if she stold your boyfriend...

Because it will make me feel better about myself knowing that I was the bigger person and knowing that I did the right thing.