Does sex really hurt that much?? (girls)

Ok...I'm 18 and am planning to have sex Valentines night with my b.f of almost a year-but I'm a virgin!! My friends told me it really hurts the first time...Im really nervous about this... is it true??

Yup, it usually hurts you will bleed.
On a scale of 1-10 its probably a 9

yeah it really really hurts but only the first couple mins.
but it will also hurt a while after your done (especially your first time)
it would be smart to have some tissue or baby wipes on hand.
you also might want some KY jelly if the condoms lube isnt enough.

having sex for the first time is very painful but everyone is different I've had some of my friends tell me it hurts but not thatt muchhh but like for mee if was horriblee the pain I had, soo it all depends but dont expect to have anything pain free cause either way you will have pain but it might be different from every body else's.

well since it is your first time just make sure you really love him. if you get to nervous and decide not to go through with it dont feel bad its your body and you do what you want with it. as for the pain... I have heard it hurts but if you use a lot of foreplay and communication it will be a lot less painful. if you cant communicate your not ready. you may bleed so put like a towel or something down.and if you dont dont freak out or try to pop it please it could have been popped when you were younger or something. hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~

yes exactally what fau said...lol

personally, it hurt really bad to the point where I was going to start tearing. buh once its all the way in, it doesnt really hurt. the only pain you should feel is when yer first trying to out it in. but as the other qirls have said, everyone is different.

It did hurt a little my first time but we talked about it and took it nice and slow and the next time it didnt hurt a bit.

it didnt hurt me, I had no fun though, so that's why I'm a lesbian. DOESN'T hurt.

it didnt hurt me, I had no fun though, so that's why I'm a lesbian. DOESN'T hurt.

Yeah it does, this may sound kind of gross but it only really really hurts if your not wet enough or the dick is too big. No problem use some lube and it shouldn't hurt that bad, just don't feel scared because that will make it worse and use lube if you have to.

the first time I had sex it didnt hurt me at all.. but if your worried it will have him finger you first then use lube it shouldnt be to bad dont be worried. but if your not comfortable then dont do it.

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Hey girly. Well, yea as all these chickas say, it's different for most of everyone. But if you haven't ever gotten used to wearing tampons, or have never been fingered.. Then YEA, most likely it is going to hurt. But I'll add this bit for a personal opinion.. but if he really loves you you guys understand each other, it'll be okay, just communicate a lot. If he's taking it too hard, say hold on.. It actually took me my boyfriend like 4 different trys, before we had good sex.. because yes, I was very tight have never been able to put in even the smallest tampon :|, wasn't even able to finger me with his pinky. So yeah, when we decided to try sex for the first time, it was pretty painful :| yep indeed. when he saw that I was in pain it was hard for him to keep an erection, because he cared so much for me he couldn't just be selfish still go at it. But just one time, I got apathetic about the pain just wanted to be CLOSE to him, so I like, turned off the pain.. then once he was ALL the way inside, the worst part was over, inside got more more flexible to him. So mostly.. it's all about open-ness communication, kinda a cheesy but beautiful teamwork thing? ALSO, very GOOD advice...: RELAX. Or try as hard as you can to. If you're tense, you're thighs, your muscles INSIDE you will be tense :| then it's really impossible for him to get inside, it'll hurt more. also, if you're going at the missionary position, angle your hips UP. That'll really help too. Well, that was a lot of imfo xD But I just hope it helped . I don't blame you for being nervous, I was WAY nervous as well. Good luck! xD

It didn't hurt me,
I was more like an uncomfortable feeling

Hey Girls this is a guy and I've been reading virginty questions all day and researching this for a while now and I appericate the advice yu give because im still a virgin and my Girlfriend is as well and I expressed to her that I want her to be me first because I have full trust in and with her and the only part im scared of is hurting her.

it depends on how your boy friend do it, take much of your time spending it on foreplay from 40 minutes to 50 minutes if its your first time, much time on foreplay lessen pain, don't be intimated, go on and enjoy yourself