Does it matter?!?!?!

Ok well my whole family are very racist and I like this mixed guy hes very sweet,cute,buff,has a good personality, and a really good heart and I reallly like him, but we tried going out and people kept tlkin...u know a white girl and a mixed...

guy...and its hard walkin the halls w/ people starin...I don't know what to do b/c no matter what he can make me smile and when im w/ him I always have a good time...im only 13 and I had my first kiss ever! And it was w/ him...I told my mom that he was mixed and that I liked him and I keep getting lectures on about how hard it was to date a black guy and that I shouldnt date him and shes always liked him until she found out he was mixed! I really really really really like him but no1 approves...help!!

No, race shouldn't matter. If it is someone who treats you well, maintains himself well then that and the fact that he makes you happy is all your parents should be concerned with.
I have a 14 year old daughter and my husband and I have discussed this whole issue several times over the last 14 years. Our decision has never waivered--as long as she is happy, then that is what is our greatest concern.
I am so sorry you have to live among such beliefs--obviously, you have remained more open-minded than what you have been taught so far in your life. And obviously, he must be *very* light skinned or looks tanned for her not to know until she was told. Sometimes when we speak, we know just as soon as the first word is out of our mouths---we know a mistake has been made. );
Truthfully, the only thing I can suggest is to try and remain really good friends. The more you push, the harder your parents are going to shove. You could try talking to them about this guy, but I don't think it would do much good. As a parent I don't feel that I should/could give you advice that leans towards rebellion. If you two can remain friends then **maybe** they can see the happiness he brings to you. If not, if you are able to remain friends until you are both 18 and can move out or go away to college. Then, you would be free to make your own decisions.
This one was a tricky one dear, hope I was able to help! If I think of anything else--I'll get back with you!
Really hope this helped dear!
Twilightmom (•:

babe course its not bad if you like him then go for it ... and if your parents still dont approve then get them to meet him and im sure they will see what a nice guy this boy is x

I hope it helped baby girl x