Does he want me or her?

My exboyfriend and I just had a baby and he has been with this girl for a month, well she knows we are livin together and havin sex and about the baby. He hesitates to say he loves me anymore but he hardly ever talks about her or thinks about her, its me and the baby he thinks about does he want me or her? If he is the one that decided for us to stay friends.

what is your problem!!! your a fool for excepting what is going on in your life. you have a KID, stop thinking about what another can do for you or your KID, but think about what you , and you only can do for your KID.

It sounds like he wants you bot, but youre going to have to make him decided which one he wants because it cant keep going like this, not only do you have the stress of a new baby but your exboyfriend is going of with another chick...he needs to break it off and stay faithful to you and baby!

You need to ask yourself if you truly feel that there is more to this than meets the eye as I think he is getting the best of both worlds right now and not keen on making any sort of committment to you at all. You are the one who is having to put up with everything and he is not considering your feelings at all, it is as if he is saying either accept it or else. That isn't how a relationship should be. You need to ask yourself if your he is really worth it as in my mind he is playing you like a fiddle and knows that if you love him enough you will put up with this strange scenario.
Ask yourself what you want out of life. You are young and still have the world at your feet - don't be taken for a fool, as it seems as though this is how he is treating you.

Believe in yourself as there are men out there who would not treat you with such disrespect.