Does he really wanna be with me?

Ok I just wanna know from a guy point of view. I have been with my boyfriend for about 5months and he has been keeping up with his past flings. He claims he loves me and doesnt care about them. Is it true?

It could just be that he wants to remain friends with his 'past flings,' and if that's the case, you have to respect that.
I don't think he'd still be dating you after 5 months if he wanted to be with one of them. But if it really bothers you, you need to talk to him about it again and let him know how much its bothering you, because no one on this website knows whether or not he means what he says- the only person who knows is him.

I understand that. I am just tired of hearing the same excuses about why he doesn't like them and yet is still talking to them. I just wanted to know if someone saw where I was coming from. Afterall we have had several conversations about it and he knows how it makes me feel.

usually after 5 months you hold hands or something as a sign of affection but that depends on what kind of person he is... just a way of judging, dont think too much into it though. ok?

Yea we do all of that when we are together...he's in the army.