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This guy does NOT love you. Love takes time to grow, it doesnt happen in a matter of weeks.
If he is already talking about wanting to have s*x with you...he doesnt love you hun. You are just going to be another notch on his player belt. You havent been going out that long. Any boy that talks about s*x so soon into a relationship, doesnt care about you. Any guy who truly cares about you, would never push you into s*x. S*x is a huge deal, no matter what some people say. For guys see s*x as totally physical and don't get their emotions involved. Your boyfriend isn't treating you like a person. Youre not just 'the girlfriend' - you are your own person, with your own feelings and needs and comfort zone.
Your body is not to be shared with just anyone who treats you nicely, even if you really like him. Rather, you should save that kind of intimate physical connection for a guy who proves by his actions over a LONG time - not just a couple of weeks/months - that he truly loves you and respects your feelings and wants to be together with you for the long-term.
How will you know if your boyfriend loves you this way? You will see it in many ways... most importantly, that he will be patient with you setting a slow pace for s*xual involvement. A guy who loves you will treat you with respect, listen to your feelings, put you first in his life, be proud of including you in activities with his friends and family, cheer you up when you are down, and show his love in many other such ways.
This boy is very immature. DONT give into him, because I know for a fact...he will dump you right after! He will only use you! He probably thinks you will give it to him knowing how you feel about him. I mean you did ask him out a few times, only to get rejected. Why do you think HE asked you out? Be smart hun, and use your head. If you feel in your heart that he just wants sex, because thats all he talks about....chances are thats all he wants!
It's not that I am putting you down,I am just being honest ok. To tell you the truth,he just want to get a piece of you and move out of your life. I really don't think that you want a heart broken right now or later on. So, this is my advice: it have only a few weeks,you two don't know each other very well and he already want to get it on. Love takes time, just be patient because I realize that this guy is not the one.
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well I have been going out with him for a few weeks and him and his friend made up a sign launge thing. then his friend told me that he wanted to have s ** with me. I dont know if that is true but it seems like that is all he talks about. do you think he really love me.oh and I asked him out a few times and he said no. then he said oh ill go out with u . and it is a week before school ends and at the end of the summer he is moving so does he love me?