Does he love me what are his feelings?

I have been seeing a guy for about 4 1/2 months and we just recently had sex. lately he has been telling me that he would marry me right now if he could afford it and he wouldnt care if I got pregnant w/ his child. he tells me im beautiful and hot all the time and says he wants me to drive down to see him in school about 5 hours away but when he came home last time he didnt drive 5 mins to see me. he didnt ever tell me he loves me but hy would he say he wanted to marry me and wouldnt care if I had his baby? I dont understand. we talk sometimes on the phone not often but for about an hour at a time. I want to be w/ him but he drinks kinda a lot and doesnt have a very good reputation but I've never seen the side of him people talk about because we have so much fun when we are together and he asks me out all the time I dont know what I should do. I think im falling in love. im almost 20 nad he is 21. please help.!! thanks a lot!!

what you really need to do is tell him. I know it sounds dumb but its the truth. trust me youll feel a lot better. plus your probally the sweet kind of girl so it shouldnt be that hard to tell him.or if that doesnt work just sit him down and tell him. ask him why he hasnt be talking to you. if you need anymore advice e mail me back...

OK this may not come across as nice but I have to say it: what are you thinking? You drive 5 hrs. to see him and he can't drive 5mins? Hello what else do you need to know. He wants to marry you when HE feels good about your relationship. What about when you are not in bed together? And by the way, has he ever heard of the Justice of the Peace? It doesn't cost but about $40.00 to get married there. You would be incredibly stupid to get pregnant right now. Trust me, he probably lives up to his reputation. If your falling, you will fall harder than you can ever imagine, right on to your heart! That is a promise! Don't go through with it! Good Luck!

well maybe he is just afraid to be a dad I think you should talk to him about the odd things thats been going on since you had his baby you will probley work something out with him yall just be honest and tell eachother whats been bothering you this whole time just get it of your brain

Good Luck!!!

...then blow him. Its is not dirty or disgusting. If you are trying to avoid having sex this is the best way to KEEP your boyfriend interested in you. Plus you need to seem like you love giving him the pleasure and not just do it to get it over with. Deepthroat him and get used to having his di*k in your mouth. Make it sloppy wet and slurp at it like you have not been fed in a week. That is the best advice that I can give you. If his toes are curled up and his fist is clenched to the bedding or something you'll know that you are doing it right.