Does he like me or not.

Let's call this guy bob. bob talks to me sometimes, and he nods and turns a bit red when I talk to him. he is nice to me, he lends me his video game stuff and etc. however, we do have a certain extent where we do not entirely click - we tease each other on a constant basis, and I just have discovered that he tried to make his whole PE class flip me off. I have no clue about who he likes - he usually lies about it and doesn't like discussing crushes INVOLVING himself. lo and behold, my friend asks him "out", and he first says I'll think about it, maybe - and he stutters a bit. my friend called him, he just started mumbling and acting quite weird until I butted in. I said I would go out with brad (a guy supposedly EVERYONE thinks I like) unless bob told me yes or no.

he said no.

now we still talk, it's just as awkward as it used to. at a dance, I was dancing with brad, and bob was CONSTANTLY STARING AT US. sometimes, when I talk to brad, bob comes up and pokes brad. then they start talking to each other, and usually bob wants to know what brad and I were talking about.

now here's a new milestone - my friend got pissed at me and now she's pretending to go out with bob for revenge. she wants me jealous - and bob knows that she is trying to provoke me, so there's this whole bag of tricks I'm falling into.

bob also tried to make his PE class flip me off today, which was something I got very pissed about.

the questions is:

does he like me, or not. (sorry if this was a long and a confusing read for you)

If Bob likes you, he has a strange and sometimes hurtful way of showing it. So Bob needs to know that you don't like the kind of teasing he does {walk away without a word when he starts}. As for an X-friend trying to make you jealous {don't be her friend again}. And let it be known that Bob isn't doing himself any favors by helping her play this game. Maybe they deserve each other.

Let Bob go for now, let him season and hopefully mature because he is certainly not acting like a friend right now, let alone a boy friend.

Blessings and good luck

Sounds like boob likes you he is just shy and young. Guys are silly so when he tried to get his class to flip you off it was to get your attention.

it sounds like he does not have a lot of experience approaching girls on that level. guys usually flirt with girls and tease them because they like them. maybe you should make the first move.